janeormoso Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 Hi, I'm in my first romantic relationship (I'm a 17-year-old girl) and I've noticed that I'm having some anxiety... Firstly, I'm afraid for our relationship to ever end, because it seems so perfect and I love him very much, however at the same time I'm afraid I won't experience any other relationships in my life. And it's only been about 2 1/2 months since we've been dating. Is this normal?? I just can't stop thinking about this dilemma... Thanks
Lani Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 This anxiety will turn you into your own worst enemy. Nobody can predict the future. You just have to go along for the ride and see what happens, don't try and make all these decisions in your head about it. Relax. Enjoy it.
d0nnivain Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 Stop being a negative nelly. Enjoy what you are experiencing now. This is & always will be your 1st relationship. You shouldn't be worried about what's going to happen past next week, maybe next month at this point. If you spend too much time stressing about the future rather than living in the moment you will miss one of the best times of your life. That said, statistically speaking this boy probably isn't your future husband or the father of your children. It doesn't mean he isn't important or that you should not enjoy this. Have fun. The rest will come along in due time 1
bubbaganoosh Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 Your only 17. Stop worrying about the what if's and enjoy yourself. Do me a favor and copy your thread to keep and maybe ten years from now, re read it. This guy your seeing? In ten years you might not even remember his name. I could be wrong but we all were 17 at one time. Good luck in your new relationship. I hope your happy and enjoy.
Scrab22 Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 You attract what you fear Unexplained theories won't help. This anxiety will wear off the longer you stay in the relationship. Try to take things slowly now. Something I thought to myself of is when walking together, walk slowly (not too much of course). It will calm you both out of anxiety or tension. You can also try to talk more slowly with lowered excitement, which can lower the adrenaline.
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