Justletgo Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 We kissed a couple of weeks ago during a party. And have been chatting daily except since she ignored me on monday. I have asked her it would be fun if she'd come to the party on wednesday (yesterday), but she said she didn't feel like it. Since then she liked my new Facebook profile picture. So during another whatsapp convo she stops replying (even though she has been online since). To which I responded by saying "I'm probably distracting you from your studies. Good luck learning! x". No reponse. Hadn't heard from her for two days. And then all of a sudden she texts me DURING the party at 02:00AM "how's the party?" -------- I dont know what to think of this, is she trying to string me along? If she had actually liked me she would have come to the party right? In fact a friend of hers whom I talked to at the party told me she went to the movies instead of the party that night. I haven't replied yet.
Scrab22 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 I don't see anything wrong here, since there's no reason someone would one day reject you and one day be friendly with you. There are people who don't respond to messages like what you wrote. As for going to the movies instead, well, she did say she doesn't feel like going to the party. It seems like she's making some kind of balance - between her life and yours, when you think of it. I think you need to go along with it, she seems to take things slowly and carefully here, and probably tries to get away from tension (parties may be a source of tension) 1
Woop1337 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 She doesn't like you. Best case scenario, she just "kinda" likes you. So is she playing games? Yes I think so. Most girls do, if they're only kinda attracted to someone.
mangetout Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Move on. She sounds like she is bored and you are filling in the gaps Get rid fast
rester Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 I don't see anything wrong here, since there's no reason someone would one day reject you and one day be friendly with you. There are people who don't respond to messages like what you wrote. As for going to the movies instead, well, she did say she doesn't feel like going to the party. It seems like she's making some kind of balance - between her life and yours, when you think of it. I think you need to go along with it, she seems to take things slowly and carefully here, and probably tries to get away from tension (parties may be a source of tension) I agree. I wouldn't sweat it. Sounds like she's taking it slow. Based on that one post, it doesn't sound like she's stringing you along. Sounds like she kinda likes you and might want to see where it goes, but isn't going to jump all over you. That's fine. Ask her out for the weekend, and if she declines and doesn't try to reschedule, you have your answer. 2
Versacehottie Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 i also would add to what the poster wrote above ^^^ . Is that she may like you but not want to take the whole thing public (other than that first make out session). Ie not in front of all your mutual friends until you two have something more solid first. That's the good possibility. The not so good possibility is that she somewhat likes you or is lukewarm about you or likes some other guy a lot so you are back up/ego boost to her. I would test it by asking her to do something that's just the two of you and see if she takes you up on it. If the actual day you suggest doesn't work out, don't panic but the real test is if she suggests an alternative day, which means she is interested enough. Good luck 1
d0nnivain Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 It's waaaayyy to early to draw any conclusions. Since she made out with you at the one party she may be "afraid" of going to another party with you in case you think poorly of her for kissing you without benefit of so much as a one date. If you genuninely like her, try asking her on a date.. . just the two of you.
Assasda Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 I just think, she just didnt want to come to the party. She gave you a GREAT excuse.... honest, not beating around the bush. She might like you, but she has has her own life. You dont have to get needy for her affection. Tease her and invite her out to places, if she cant make it, big deal... see other women, but I dont understand why any of this is bothering you. Like my man Bruce Lee said: Be like water
jbelle6 Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 She ignored you Monday? What did she do on the weekend?
Author Justletgo Posted May 30, 2014 Author Posted May 30, 2014 Asked her if she wanted to hang out today and she said she was out of town. And was telling me about how happy she was that she passed the test. I just said 'good for you!' and am goign to leave it at that. Last weekend she was working and I had to study for an exam so we sort of made plans to go out after both our exams (which should have been today/this weekend).
GemmaUK Posted May 30, 2014 Posted May 30, 2014 I can't see anything wrong here. She didn'twant to go to the party - that is fair enough. She didn't reply to a text that didn't require a reply as you 'sounded like' you were leaving her be to do her studies. One day you were both out of contact - no biggie. I can' t see an issue?
giblesp Posted May 31, 2014 Posted May 31, 2014 That sort of a response from a girl would have bored me within an hour. Go for a girl that's hot for you.
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