Bruce Leigh Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Was out doing a bit of clothes shopping earlier and i bumped into an old mate, not seen him close to 10 years. He was someone i grew up with but he moved away. But he moved away 10 years ago and i never expected to see him again to be honest. Until now and he has moved back to the area. A few years ago, i was seeing one of his exes, for some a big deal, for some, not so much. But " the elephant in the room " is that she was his first girlfriend and for a few years too. It didn't end well with them anyway, he got someone else pregnant and that's why they split up. But we have agreed to have a night out together, to catch up properly but how do i bring up that i was in a relationship with his first girlfriend/love? Assuming he doesn't already know as he asked me briefly about who i have been seeing over the years. I did not see this situation coming at all !!
preraph Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 I'd hope he doesn't bring it up and not bring it up if he doesn't. If he does know, then he must not care much or he wouldn't have looked you up. If he doesn't know, I'd just avoid the subject. I can't imagine he'll make you enumerate all the women you've gone out with over the 10-year span. But if he brings her up in conversation, you'd have to tell him you saw her for a little while but don't give any details because he may be fishing. And he's already hurt her once.
Author Bruce Leigh Posted May 29, 2014 Author Posted May 29, 2014 I'd hope he doesn't bring it up and not bring it up if he doesn't. If he does know, then he must not care much or he wouldn't have looked you up. If he doesn't know, I'd just avoid the subject. I can't imagine he'll make you enumerate all the women you've gone out with over the 10-year span. But if he brings her up in conversation, you'd have to tell him you saw her for a little while but don't give any details because he may be fishing. And he's already hurt her once. That's the thing, we didn't look each other up, he basically just moved back here and we ran into each other. He hasn't been back that long so who knows what he is aware of. Just don't want to be given a chance to mention it only for him to then ambush me with it. Will certainly be interesting if anything
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