bubbaganoosh Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Alright, i was hanging out with my friends the past weekend and they told me my Ex girlfriend already has a new boyfriend. After we tried to make it work not to long ago, and her saying she can't put any effort into relationships, i feel played. It hella sucks knowing she's with someone else, and i just really want to get back with her. I was thinking about doing something romantic and apologizing for what ever i did wrong. So, can you guys give me advice? Should I act like i'm cool with her seeing someone else, & make it seem like i'm moving on? Or should i do something Romantic, apologize & whatever??? Well now you know so you can finally open your eyes and see that all your time and effort got you no where with her and IMO she did you a favor. How great could this relationship be when you break up every other day and get treated like crap. When you were at the fair and she made that comment, you should have got in your car and left her ass there and if she texts you tell her to get some other pasty to pick her up. Now, what do you do. You move on and find a girl whose more in tune with you then she was.
2sunny Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Alright, i was hanging out with my friends the past weekend and they told me my Ex girlfriend already has a new boyfriend. After we tried to make it work not to long ago, and her saying she can't put any effort into relationships, i feel played. It hella sucks knowing she's with someone else, and i just really want to get back with her. I was thinking about doing something romantic and apologizing for what ever i did wrong. So, can you guys give me advice? Should I act like i'm cool with her seeing someone else, & make it seem like i'm moving on? Or should i do something Romantic, apologize & whatever??? This is a bad idea! Get counseling to find out why you would need to beg someone who doesn't want to date you. She's insecure and can't be happy alone. That's not attractive.
sly_fly1 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 just ask her straight up with out arguments. say, why did you dump me, and why are you suddenly miserable and emotional tell her that its either you want a happy relationship like you once had, if she is not interested,. fade away
Bishop556 Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Just as the great Dock Boggs said, "Don't try to buy a woman's love with the last dollar of your soul." If your ex left you for someone else, walk away. She is not worth the effort. I know it's easier said than done, but do know what she did is no reflection on you. Stay strong.
Author Corduroy Posted May 29, 2014 Author Posted May 29, 2014 it's just hard for me to move forward, because she's really the perfect girl for me. i had others, & girls who want to date me now, but the one i really want is my ex. this is the only girl who i have so much in common with, shes the funniest, & most beautiful woman i ever met. She was my bestfriend and she felt the same way about me. I know this is GIGS..
KaliLove Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 On this forum, you are going to get a bunch of replies that basically say: -Don't contact her -You can't get her back -You don't want to get her back -If you do want her back, DO NOT contact her -Move on, for yourself, not her The breakup forum seems to reduce people to robots who do not get what they currently have (especially what they have lost). So, that's the advice you'll get. Are you concerned, regardless of the result, that if you don't do something you will regret not trying? It is possible, however, if you do try and don't get the response you want, that you will also regret that. These things often turn into something like: the only reasonable thing is to move on. So you're saying that people should beg, blackmail, cry, and guilt someone into taking them back..and that if they succeed it'll turn into a long and heartfelt reconciliation followed by marriage and babies? Why would you want to be with someone you had to beg to come back to you? Why would you want to have to convince someone to love you if they don't? If the ex is showing signs of wanting to reconcile, sure, go for it. But 99% of the time on this forum, they're not. People like you are the ones those Get Your Ex Back scams are marketed to. I got my ex back. Several times. But guess what? We kept breaking up again, because none of the issues we had were ever solved. It took getting my heart broken and breaking his heart numerous times for me to figure that out. Most couples don't break up for no reason and unless both parties are working on changing what broke them up in the first place (which takes time), they'll just break up again. 1
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