Samuri 17 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 My GF and I broke up 2 months ago because she was incredibly jealous about Facebook. Every time a girl would like/comment on something I posted she would go into a jealous rage and accuse me of "using FB like a dating site". When I asked her to announce our relationship, her response was "I don't want my business on the internet" When she called me to break it off I was fine with it at first, I was tired of dealing with the stress of being blamed for other people's behavior on the internet, but now I am feeling bad about it because I do love her. The last week has been absolute HELL because I find myself reminded of her more and more. So what can I do to get her back? I know for a fact that she isn't dating anyone else. ***Additional info: I can't leave FB or twitter, I need to be connected to social media for my job *****
d0nnivain Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Why do you want to go back? Nothing that caused your break up has been fixed or changed? It will be more of the same. What's the point?
Author Samuri 17 Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 When we first got together we had to be secret because her parents don't approve of me and she was living in an apartment that they owned. Now that we are in a position that we can be out in the open, might it not be different?
d0nnivain Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 She's still going to be nutty about what other people do on your social media spaces.
Dallers Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Once that person is an ex they remain an ex. It does not matter if you get together and it works or not, it rarely does but they always remain an ex and there is a reason for that. You do not want to go there and if you do expect very little in terms of happiness. Life goes on for a reason and people break up for a reason trying to redo the past is a fight that many choose and regret. Move on.
Author Samuri 17 Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 you're probably right, but I can't help but acknowledge this nagging feeling in the back of my mind that I shouldn't let her go. Yesterday I found a list I wrote 2 years before she and I got together "20 qualities my perfect mate would have" and she had 18 of them, on top of the fact that she and I had known each other for 20 years before we started dating. And I can't deny my responsibility in the breakup, even though I never cheated on her, I did spend a lot of time speaking to/about my ex GF when we first got together. My EX-GF and I have a very unusual relationship, even though we have been broken up for 3 years now and we live on opposite sides of the country, we still speak almost every day.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 My EX-GF and I have a very unusual relationship, even though we have been broken up for 3 years now and we live on opposite sides of the country, we still speak almost every day. This is a problem. It's highly unusual and not healthy. No current or future GF will be cool with this. Ever. May I ask why in the hell you have this RS with an ex??
Author Samuri 17 Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 I have this weird relationship with her because 1. She's the only person I trust 100%, I know that she would gladly give up her life to save mine (she almost did once) 2. She and I stared death in the face for 5 years together, it's like how people who go to war have an inseparable bond that lasts forever, I have saved her life and she has saved mine. 3. She is always interested in helping me with girl advice 4. She is an excellent editor and proof reads all the documents I need to write. 5. She is the best trip sitter of all time 6. She's always there to pick me up after a breakup/rejection. (we didn't work out because she come to the conclusion that she's a lesbian)
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 And you talk to this person almost everyday because???
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