wise Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 About 2 weeks ago I start to talk to girl I saw on FB and she was really interested in me. She also liked pictures of me on FB. Week ago I went with her on a drink to meet her in person and it was really nice. We had talked for 3 hours and it was really nice. I didn`t get a feeling that I bored her or anything like that. After this drink, few hours later I sent her a message "I must say that it was really nice today" through FB. She checked message next day but didn`t respond. Next day I asked her through FB if she is again very busy or was drink such a disaster.. she saw it next day but did not reply.. I saw her the next day when she was working at bar. She said hi to me and asked me how am I and then she also said that she saw my message and that she will reply, but she didn`t. Yesterday I was with my friend at bar she is working and she saw me and say again hi and was really nice to me. I went to bar counter to pay and she just came from the toilete and poked me. She asked me how am I doing, how far am I with my PGD. I am a little confused beacuse when we meet in person she is really nice and everything and she shows interes for my thing but on FB she still didn`t reply. What do you thing about this?
d0nnivain Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Since you have a way to communicate with her in person, stop putting so much stock in FB. Next time you see her, have a plan & ask her out for a specific date, time & place e.g.: would you like to go to the movies with me on Friday?
Author wise Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 I will go to this bar next week and I will ask her why she didn`t answer anything, if I said anything wrong or what is going on. Or do you think that this is not a good idea? For me she is sending mixed signals.. she didn`t reply.. but she talk to me in person and when she sees me she smiles in nice way (it looks to me like she like me) but maybe I`m wrong :S .
d0nnivain Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I think it's a horrible idea. If you ask her why she didn't respond you come off as creepy & insecure. Don't ask. If you ask her if you did something wrong, it signals that you are insecure & you are second guessing your own behavior. It's not a very attractive trait in man. Women like confident men. For now, ignore the mixed signals. Stop asking why. Simply as her on a date for a specific time, place & activity.
dbpullman Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Definitely don't ask her if something was wrong or about what you said/did. Like someone said women like confident men. I used to be some what insecure when it came to this stuff until my current girlfriend. I had only met her twice through a friend and randomly texted her (she did not give me her number, I got it through a friend). I was freaking out as I sent that initial message. But I owned it...and she loved it. In fact, I didn't even have to tell her it was me who texted...she figured it out. In any case, just be confident and ask her out. Be specific about a time and place and definitely don't say anything like "we can do whatever you want". Take control...she'll like it if she's into you.
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