moimeme Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 A friend and I were chatting about this today and I was wondering what other folks think. At what point in the relationship do you do the 'daily check-in'? At what point do you assume you are a couple and therefore call each other every day to make plans or discuss each other's plans? In my relationships, it usually happened fairly soon and I just figured that was the case for everyone. Seems not, however. So what's the scoop? Does this happen soon or later? Do you talk about doing it first or just fall into the habit?
CurvyGurl Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Hmmm. Good question. Happens fairly quickly for me. Generally I get an email or some form of contact everyday, at least on the weekdays. I rarely initiate it. They seem to think I really care how their day is going.
Thinkalot Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 in my current relationship it happened fairly soon...within a matter of weeks I'd say. we felt an instant connection and both chose to contact the other quite a bit, from fairly early
Beth Posted February 13, 2005 Posted February 13, 2005 I never thought about planning or discussing it, it always just seemed he would call or I would and it became habit. If one of us did'nt contact the other for a week I just figured it was over, and I was always right - it WAS! That was over 20 years ago though. I don't know how it is in the dating world today. It would be interesting to know the stats on if the couples who discuss and plan it have more lasting relationships then those couples who just naturally fall into habit. hmm, bad grammar me---I'm tired tonight. I hope I made sense.
karlym3 Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 hmmm... so waht does it mean if after 6 wks he calls you weekly... after you had to ask him to??
Ms_Sweetness Posted February 17, 2005 Posted February 17, 2005 It took my guy and I several months before we began calling at least once everyday.
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