Phoe Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Some guys do, some guys don't. It's gonna depend from guy to guy, and the reason why will depend from guy to guy. 4
ThaWholigan Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Depending on my level of interest, it can certainly make seduction more intriguing. Adds a different cadence. I am usually the first to make a move on impulse at times, it's nice for a woman to make a move on me! I'm a bit more used to it actually... 1
Phoe Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Yes ...... especially if it's Halle Berry. And if you're not Halle Berry, do be cautious. Sometimes females pursue and end up rejected. As long as you go in knowing that anything could happen, and are OK with knowing you could easily be rejected, I say, why not? 1
MrMeh Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 If so,why? Because I find them attractive. If not,why? Because I don't find them attractive 5
somedude81 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 As long as she doesn't come on too strong. A girl who is very aggressive is almost always a turn off, unless she is super good looking. IMO, the best thing a girl can do is let a guy know that she likes him, and then take a step back and wait. 1
carhill Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 If so, why? If not, why? I haven't had any experience with that with single women but, from anecdotal experience with others, I liked the clarity, even if only in the moment. I think generally, it feels uplifting to experience another human taking notice of one, and expressing that. So, if it ever occurs that I hear from a single woman that 'I'd love to get together with you for dinner on Friday night', or similar, I expect I would feel positive about that moment, no matter what future circumstances might bring. 1
firmness Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 This is a complex one - yet simple at the same time. The ultimate truth (if there is one to be had here) is that romance is like a dance. One or both give clues, hints, or signals of interest. The other should pick up on it. If not you either walk away or amp up your signals! So "pursue" can mean a lot of things. It took me a while to read when a girl/woman was flirting. Then I hit my mid 20's and everything was fine after that. 2
thefooloftheyear Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 There isnt a guy that doesnt like attention from women(maybe gay guys dont?)...even if the woman is out of his league...Its flattering on any level... TFY 2
Frank2thepoint Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 If so, why? Yes I like being pursued by a woman. This of course does not mean I don't ever pursue or initiate. Also to be clear, I'm not saying this as if I wouldn't reciprocate anything. It's comforting, endearing, and respectful that a woman pursues, because she understands that the dating dance is fraught with enough confusion and mixed signals anyway. A girl who is very aggressive is almost always a turn off, unless she is super good looking. NYC has made me paranoid. If a good looking woman approached me, I'd immediately put my hands on my wallet, and look around at my surroundings to see if I am about to get mugged (because she is the distraction), or she is trying to sell me something. 3
Haydn Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Hi Mond, I think women pursue as much as men these days. I like it. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 It's not a matter of liking or not liking. It's a matter of being suspicious. Any woman who would pursue me has a few screws loose, or has an agenda.
potsticker Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 if she's not creepy or off-putting, I suppose it'd be flattering at the very least.
Bruce Leigh Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Women have always approached me throughout the years and still do, although the approaches are less frequent these days. I dont know why any man would see it as negative.
marcjb Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Yes, I like it when a woman is clear about her interest in me. I'm not into anyone playing games with me because I don't play games with anyone.
todreaminblue Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 (edited) No, no, no the horror..... G apocalypse now redux marlon brando..." the horror"..:bunny: classic movie.......... i shouldnt have to chase a man if i do i doubt he is a man or just a boy who gets his mum to do things for him because he is too lazy to chase or get what he wants shows no assetriveness..which i need ina guy to have....authority......deb Edited June 24, 2014 by todreaminblue 4
littleplanet Posted June 24, 2014 Posted June 24, 2014 Never along my long and winding road have I taken kindly to being pursued by a woman. I suppose this makes me Exhibit A walking stereotype. I guess I always liked to initiate. (A do-er, rather than a receiver?) But don't get me wrong. I'm no control freak. But that's just where the comfort zone always was for me. I recall (it's been awhile, now) what it used to feel like to be pursued....... and the aggressiveness of it was definitely a turnoff, for me. So I guess that makes me Mr. Conventional. But I'm happy to be that way. (and the missus would definitely kick me out of my writing room for mentioning this..............because SHE remembers how damned long it took for me to make up my mind!) But, she waited..................and waited..................................and waited...........................and......... 2
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