Author Sammy1223 Posted June 11, 2014 Author Posted June 11, 2014 Honestly it was just one of those what if things, figured I would give it a shot to see what happened she isn't moving for any reason that has her locked in. Her words to me were "I haven't found anything special here so why not." Kinda been looking at it like you said, girls usually will bump things around in their schedules if they have the interest to see you. just didnt want to dump a opportunity of something because I'm in an unfamiliar situation, so figured Id ask.
HappyLove Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 Just go with the flow and don't expect too much. You got 20 days just relax see if anything happens. You saw someone you liked and went after her! Do you know how many people wish they had your guts? Don't read too much into anything with this one. Just treat it as taking a chance and if you go out have a blast and if you don't it was most likely bad timing. I personally would advise not to text too much, save it for the date.
Author Sammy1223 Posted June 11, 2014 Author Posted June 11, 2014 Don't plan on it, as I said I deleted her number, if its there Ill hear back, if not whatever. and beach whats the point in life if you don't take chances, especially when it may be someone you might be looking for, never planned to ask her out, didn't try to meet her, it just happened. Usually how you find the good ones. didnt want to ask what if
NYC-BigKat Posted June 11, 2014 Posted June 11, 2014 So first time poster not really sure how I feel about actually asking for advice on the internet but hey, whatever. So in a bit of a pickle and not sure what I should do. For the past few months there was a girl that worked at the coffee shop I go to every morning. Never really noticed her at first but about 1.5 months ago she started talking to me in the morning and we would just have small talk every morning. figured she was just being friendly as any girl in the service industry would be. After a while though she would kind of go out of her way to say hi, wave, make sure I said something to her and all that. Now at this point in time I was not really looking to ask anyone out. Last relationship was a longterm about 10 months ago now, and messy. Have been enjoying being single ever since. That is until this Girl started talking to me every morning, made comments about why I don't dress a certain way more often. Asking me what I was doing, and giggling and smiling at all the stupid crap I said that I hit myself for later. Well here is the pickle. the last time I talked to her was about 3 weeks ago and I vowed to ask her out the next time I saw her... I haven't seen her since except I saw her once as I was leaving the store about a week and a half ago but was running late for work, she was talking to her manager and I was didnt even think until I was half way to work. Not really sure what to do, should I accept that I missed my opportunity and suck it up, ask one of her coworkers to pass my number on to her. wait it out or what? I don't want to seem creepy or like a stalker or anything. Keep beating myself up over it, and sucks every time I go into the coffee shop I hope shes there to ask her and she never is. Thanks in advance sorry for writing a story Well um...if u do see her again just talk to her & catch up & see if she likes it or not & then make a move & ask her out to drink with u. She might be nice & do it but if she makes excuses don't ask anymore. I had to learn it the hard way when I would keep asking & the girls got mad eventually.
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