hea Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 My ex split with me for the second time 9 months ago. we had kept in contact at first but I found it too hard. He then, about 2/3 months ago, sent me a massive apology text, in the middle of the night (again drinking), out of the blue. And I basically told him not to talk about our relationship anymore to me because I was sick of him bringing it up, which he agreed with. I had not spoken to him since then and last week I got a phone call in the middle of the night from him (he was on holiday, a holiday I was supposed to go on) and he called me and basically told me he thinks we could work it out. Problem is he was drunk. not properly drunk as he said he had only had a couple but even still, he still had alcohol in him. I told him to call me when he got back of his holiday, if he was still 100% he wanted to, and hes not called. Why ring me after all this time, tell me that and then just disappear?! Totally don't get it!
Michelle ma Belle Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I hate to use bumper sticker logic but I can't help myself in this particular case; 1. Drunk words are sober thoughts 2. They don't call it liquid courage for nothing Why did you break-up each time? What do you want from him? Do you want to get back together with him? Honestly, this guy sounds like he has a bad case of wanting his cake and eating it too. It just doesn't work that way unfortunately. I think YOU need to get straight what it is you want from this guy. If you want to see if you can get back together again, nail him down and talk it out for heaven's sake. If you're officially over him and ready to move on, block him or change your number - done. Good luck.
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