kgreatie Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Well it's been 3 months after my breakup. I'm in a new relationship now and I feel pretty great most times. Being in a relationship right now.. Probably not a good idea considering maybe I'm not entirely over my breakup. I still cry about it every once in a while. I know 3 months is not a long recovery time but I'm happy with the progress I've made. I went from crying every day for 2 months straight and lost a significant amount of weight to being out everyday and being pretty happy. Still hurts that he doesn't seem to even care that I'm gone. I don't look at his twitter anymore really, if by some chance I do look I don't get upset anymore. I'm really better off but the breakup still upsets me, I still have dreams about my ex sometimes and sad songs trigger thoughts about what happened. It's still hard but I'm okay and I know in another 3 months I'll be even better.
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 You are currently risking 2 peoples emotional health... 3
Author kgreatie Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 You are currently risking 2 peoples emotional health... I mean, not really. It's just called moving on and it's not a serious relationship
mtnbiker3000 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 (edited) I mean, not really. It's just called moving on and it's not a serious relationship You say yourself you're probably not over the ex yet and still cry about him and cyberstalk him... sometimes. That's not moving on. That's using this guy to get over the ex. Edited May 27, 2014 by mtnbiker3000 6
Marco Valerio Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 You say yourself you're probably not over the ex yet and still cry about him and cyberstalk him... sometimes. That's not moving on. That's using this guy to get over the ex. I do agree. You shouldn't be in a relationship meanwhile you have feelings for someone else. If you are in a relationship you should give a 100% of yourself not less. 2
David87 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Would you like to date someone who considers the relationship he has with you not serious ? It's not fare ........Move on but not hurting other peoples feelings . 2
Author kgreatie Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 Woops now I remember why I don't come to LS anymore. Oh well. Thanks though for the input
David87 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Woops now I remember why I don't come to LS anymore. Oh well. Thanks though for the input LOL there's no need to be grumpy.....you got honest answers 1
RDawg Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 This new guy can't be all that great if you're still hung up on your ex. Moving on with a new person is fine so long as you fall head over heals in love with them so it obliterates all the hurt. (imho) That's what happened with my previous ex, I had been single for 8 months when I met my recent ex and as soon as I got into a relationship with her the previous ex just disappeared from my mind. She was nothing compared to my most recent ex. I went to total indifference instantaneously! I don't think one ever gets over it fully until you meet the next, better person. (better for you, you know what I mean.)
mammasita Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Woops now I remember why I don't come to LS anymore. Oh well. Thanks though for the input Yes, we ALL secretly know eachother and plot against people. Have you thought that if so many different people are telling you the same thing, there just might be some truth to it Live and learn. 2
erklat Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I don't think one ever gets over it fully until you meet the next, better person. (better for you, you know what I mean.) This. The next big thing you shift your energy towards marks that you reached indifference.
me85 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 People on here are not trying to tag team you. You needed to come here to vent and now you have. I have had people respond to me on here in ways I didn't want them to, too. I felt like I needed someone on my side, even if they were a stranger. Which is the concept for EVERYONE on LS. But there were times when people were like "you're crazy ME!" lol I didn't really care much because these people are strangers, what do they know?! haha BUT. I posted my threads for feedback and feedback is what I got. People have to learn and grow on their own. We are ALL guilty of rebounding. Very few people in the world have not done this. I do think you are rebounding. And I do think it would be best for you to stop dating until your feelings of sadness for your ex are completely gone. That is just my opinion. Everyone heals in their own way. Don't sweat what other people think.
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