d0nnivain Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Although there is no excuse for cheating, perhaps you weren't giving her enough romance or attention. Go back & learn from your friend who left the cute note under his GF's windshield. 2
LifeGoesOnMan Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 dated a girl for 7 months. 5 years older than her. i found out she was doing **** behind my back. sexting guys, sending nudes, lied to my face about going to sleep and hung out with another dude. met this girl she became friends with and started blowing me off for her she would talk about how bad she felt for doing all that but she just cant handle a relationship. im mad i feel like i got played by her she still tries to talk to me on occasion and will talk about how maybe we can get together when shes fully ready but i just ignore it she's a whore, move on.
jbelle6 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Although there is no excuse for cheating, perhaps you weren't giving her enough romance or attention. Go back & learn from your friend who left the cute note under his GF's windshield. LOL, I didn't clue in that it was the same person. 1
David87 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 LOL, I didn't clue in that it was the same person. Me neither, the threads were merged 1
hestheone66 Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 The OP is grieving and in his particular case the ex gf seemed to be insensitive to his feelings and used him post break up. This is NOT what any friend does.this is what a selfish user does. I want to however present my opinion that after a breakup and unless you have children but sometimes not even then, if it is over for one person, the relationship as a romantic relationship is over. Given that most relationships do break up eventually (statistically it's true) why not look for qualities in partner such as sense of humour compassion and integrity so that a friendship is possible (after healing of course). I've had amicable breakups. (Dumped and dumped) and been friends with exes. At the end of the day if you're honest you often stay in romantic involvement beyond what is healthy because you don't want to lose the qualities that person brings into your life. Oh and I had to laugh at the comment that 'women can be friends with exes easier than men' . Who are they in friendships with???
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