Locust Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I'm a science major with one more class to go and I'm done with school, and at this point in my life I would consider myself a scientist. People say scientists usually never date anyone or been involved in relationships. I can say that is very true least for me, so I have remove that thought of possibly inviting her for a date. Majority of women find science guys fairly boring and I feel that it would be a waste of time to pursue. I will still build a friendship with her (she will become the 13th or 14th female friend). She must wanted to stay in contact since she asked for my number last week before the semester ended.
Phantomu Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 dude if you like her then go for it! What is that a statistic?
Omei Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 You're putting thoughts in your head that might not even be true? How do you know what she's going to think? If you like this girl did you like her because she was the majority? Bet its not!!! Ask her
Lani Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Girls consider boring guys boring, irrespective of their career. She seems into you so I think you should ask her out. The longer you hang around in this friendship muddy water the harder it'll be, so sooner rather than later!
Potz4prez Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I'm a science major with one more class to go and I'm done with school, and at this point in my life I would consider myself a scientist. You are not a scientist yet. Sorry. People say scientists usually never date anyone or been involved in relationships. Yeah, mad scientists. More often than not, researchers are married it seems. I can say that is very true least for me, so I have remove that thought of possibly inviting her for a date. Stop pigeonholing yourself, jesus. Majority of women find science guys fairly boring and I feel that it would be a waste of time to pursue. Most science guys don't define themselves by their research. It's a job. I'm more interesting than most everyone I meet... and I just so happen to be a researcher. I will still build a friendship with her (she will become the 13th or 14th female friend). She must wanted to stay in contact since she asked for my number last week before the semester ended. Nothing wrong with female friends... but who keeps count? Unless all your female friends are girls you friendzoned yourself with... Get your head in the game, son. With your attitude, you've lost before you've started. Start asking girls out instead of befriending them. 3
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Having worked in 2 places that were/are overflowing with researchers and scientists, there is not even ONE single guy around. Women love smart men with good jobs. Also, you are not a "scientist" yet.
DArtagnan2 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I'm a science major with one more class to go and I'm done with school, and at this point in my life I would consider myself a scientist. People say scientists usually never date anyone or been involved in relationships. I can say that is very true least for me, so I have remove that thought of possibly inviting her for a date. Majority of women find science guys fairly boring and I feel that it would be a waste of time to pursue. I will still build a friendship with her (she will become the 13th or 14th female friend). She must wanted to stay in contact since she asked for my number last week before the semester ended. she asked for your number but did you get hers? if not, get hers. Maybe ask what she is doing this weekend. Could be a day date to take the pressure off you . Go get some ice cream or whatnot. I understand why you think the way you do about your profession, but only those who put themselves in that category will find themselves there more times than not. Look at the positive facts right in front of you, her actions, and don't let some fact finding stat rule what happens in your life. Be the exception to what you believe. 1
Author Locust Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 she asked for your number but did you get hers? if not, get hers. Maybe ask what she is doing this weekend. Could be a day date to take the pressure off you . Go get some ice cream or whatnot. I understand why you think the way you do about your profession, but only those who put themselves in that category will find themselves there more times than not. Look at the positive facts right in front of you, her actions, and don't let some fact finding stat rule what happens in your life. Be the exception to what you believe. Yeah I got her number. I asked her when she free we can go play tennis. Im not sure if that is a good idea but it is a activity.
Author Locust Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 (edited) Friends play tennis. Then what else we can do. Where do people go at for dates? I don't know you literary have to tell me because I do not know. I thought dates was about anything to do. I don't know any special rules. I thought maybe after couple of hours when I feel a bit more comfortable then I will maybe ask her to lunch or something. Edited May 27, 2014 by Locust
d0nnivain Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 If you want to date her, ask her on a date. If you want to be her friend, be her friend. Do not think that you can become her BF by friendzoning yourself 1st.
Author Locust Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 If you want to date her, ask her on a date. If you want to be her friend, be her friend. Do not think that you can become her BF by friendzoning yourself 1st. No. I'm not sure if doing tennis with her would be a good thing. I'm starting to read other forums on the internet out there saying its not good because its not closeness and some other things.
LifeGoesOnMan Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 13 or 14 female "friends" is way more than enough dude. she hasn't even put you in the friendzone yet, youre putting yourself there! *smashes head on wall* ask her out dude, on a DATE. not a friendly get-to-whatever, a legit date, MAN UP! we only regret the chances we didn't take bro.
d0nnivain Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 No. I'm not sure if doing tennis with her would be a good thing. I'm starting to read other forums on the internet out there saying its not good because its not closeness and some other things. You can absolutely play tennis with her as a first date. Just share a cold beverage with her afterwards. 1
Author Locust Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 You can absolutely play tennis with her as a first date. Just share a cold beverage with her afterwards. LOL. I'm sure we'll have our own separate beverage.
d0nnivain Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 LOL. I'm sure we'll have our own separate beverage. I'm not talking about 1 soda with 2 straws. I am talking about sitting down, spending some quiet time relaxing after the workout of the tennis match 1
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