strach Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted this in friendships but wanted to get more answers. So there’s this girl I have liked for a while now, and back in November she actually said that she liked me. But she goes to university far away and was only home for a bit and I never got the chance to ask her out (mainly because I am way too shy). But we kept texting and I was waiting till she got back for summer. Unfortunately I moved so it was hard to hang out with her. Just a week ago I started to notice her almost ignoring me, she would respond to texts but something was off. So I confronted her about it and told her I still had feelings for her, and she told me she started dating someone else because she thought it was over because I wasn’t hanging out with her a lot. She told me she didn’t want this to ruin our friendship because we are actually pretty good friends. Im 20, I’ve never had a gf before and to be honest this is pretty much the only girl ive ever liked enough that I actually wanted a relationship with which is making this tougher. What should I do? Like I do consider her a good friend and we share the same close group of friends. But im concerned im going to be on the verge of tears every time that I see her. If this was some random girl i had just met there wouldn’t be a problem but its not, and ive never had to say I cant be friends with someone before. It doesn’t help that she plans most of the stuff our group does. This is not up my alley at all, I don’t want to cause drama or problems. If anyone can relate and/or give me some advice that would be much appreciated.
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