Patty Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 I just made a new friend from Language Exchange and we have goten to be good friends.He would help me with my Spanish and I told him what a great friend he was and Id be happy to help him with any English. So today he got online and we talked a little.He wants me to visit his country Argentina and I said I dont want to be far away from my family.Then he was telling me "I have a problem" its not that I have a problem,its just I dont meet strangers from the internet in general.He kept on asking me what my problem was.Now I feel wrong for doing it. He is just trying to argue with me. I dont know why im feeling horrible for saying no. He seemed real nice and I thought he was going to turn out to be a good friend but he got very mad at me.I dont why he turned so cold. Patty
Stone Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Oh leave him alone patty people can just be assclowns sometimes. I sure wouldn't go to the next state to meet anybody online nevertheless another country.
HotCaliGirl Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 What a creep. It's not like he's taking the next flight to come visit you...you don't even know each other and he wants you to go to another country to see him then gets upset that you said no? I wouldn't even meet someone that agressive and mean if he lived down the street from me so don't let that idiot make you feel bad just because his true colors started to come through. He was pretending to be nice to get you to lure you into his controlling and scary life.
Author Patty Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 Oh leave him alone patty people can just be assclowns sometimes. I sure wouldn't go to the next state to meet anybody online nevertheless another country. Me either.I agree. What a creep. It's not like he's taking the next flight to come visit you...you don't even know each other and he wants you to go to another country to see him then gets upset that you said no? I wouldn't even meet someone that agressive and mean if he lived down the street from me so don't let that idiot make you feel bad just because his true colors started to come through. He was pretending to be nice to get you to lure you into his controlling and scary life. Thats true.I never realized that. Thanks everyone for advice. Patty
Barby Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Hi Patty! I'm sooo happy that you're in a language exchange program! I'm very proud of you for making the important step of learning Spanish. Don't let this one mean person make you feel bad about making friends through this program. Don't let him make you feel bad, you have no reason to run off to another country to meet a stranger and if he is rude because you are uncomfortable or because you said "no" to this very unreasonable request my advice is..........don't talk to that particular person anymore! And good luck with your Spanish!
Author Patty Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 Hi Patty! I'm sooo happy that you're in a language exchange program! I'm very proud of you for making the important step of learning Spanish. Don't let this one mean person make you feel bad about making friends through this program. Don't let him make you feel bad, you have no reason to run off to another country to meet a stranger and if he is rude because you are uncomfortable or because you said "no" to this very unreasonable request my advice is..........don't talk to that particular person anymore! And good luck with your Spanish! Thanks. I blocked him from contacting me.Dont want to talk to him if hes going to be rude. Im practicing some Spanish and I try to speak a little everyday with the words I know. Im hoping to make a female friend from language exchange. Patty
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