She regrets ending it but is too unstable?

[throwaway1313]

Two months ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me. We were both set to graduate from college and move back to different states a few hours apart. With so much uncertainty surrounding what the future would hold for either of us she ended our relationship. She said she felt too immature to be in a long term relationship because she couldn't see herself sacrificing some things in order to be with me (she has been thinking of travelling for a year or so) and neither of us know where we will be in the next few years. I kept level headed and kept the no contact rule for 2 weeks. After this period we met up to return possessions and ended up spending the night together. For the next two weeks we continued to see eachother semi-regularly as we finished up school. She tells me that she still loves me but is just confused. The next month we have limited contact, only text every few days. A couple days ago I was in a nearby town for a night so I asked her if she wanted to see me. She agreed and we ended up spending the night in a hotel room together. That night I could tell she missed me a lot and she told me that If she still felt this way in a couple months or so she would want to get back together. She even told me that she didn't think she would find her soul mate at such a young age. Yesterday she wanted to skype and I could tell she was really sad. She said she has been feeling awful and crying all the time because she misses me so much. She told me that she regrets breaking up with me and wishes she never had, but she feels too emotionally unstable right now to get back together. She said sometimes she wants to get back together just because she misses me so much, but other times she tells herself she needs more time. I haven't told her that I want to get back together even though I do. Ive just been hinting that maybe we will be back together in the future. She hopes that in a few months things will be clear for her but waiting is killing me. Should I continue the way I have been or tell her that I want her back? Also should I go no contact? limited?

[jbelle6]

No contact immediately. You will be giving her space to think, and also space to really REALLY miss you. You being there the way you are is comforting her and making the breakup easier for her. Make her have withdrawals from you.

[bubbaganoosh]

She sounds really confused and doesn't know what she really wants. If it's me, then let her find her way and if it's there, you both will know and if not, better now that a few years down the road where there could be real trouble.

[Marco Valerio]

I agree with the last two comments, giver her space, she needs to figure out what she wants. You should do NC, the situation will only hurt you if you stay there for her.