cdt76 Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 After 7 years. 2 break ups. So many horrible dates. So many lies. So much hurt. Anger. Rebuilding. The new me. I'm DONE with the search. I'm done dating. I'm done hoping. Here is to alcoholism and action films. F this. 2
d0nnivain Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 I'm sorry you are hurting. If ONE drunken weekend helps OK fine. Alcoholism is not the answer. Drown your sorrows in action movies & take a break. Talk so somebody if you still feel this defeated in a few weeks. 3
Snow101 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I'm with you bro. Cheesy 80's action films and booze have done me more good than any woman ever has :o
Greeneyegemini Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 I feel the same way. Especially after I thought I found "the one". Just thinking about opening my heart up again for a chance to be smashed sucks pretty bad. No alcoholism for me though, that already runs in my family. But I'd watch Rambo or Total Recall with you if you lived in Ohio. Perhaps Tango & Cash, because I feel like watching Kurt Russell getting tortured a little bit... 1
learning_slowly Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 What you have to remember is: there is no "one". If we did stay with somebody for life it maybe pretty boring anyway. I'm hurting today like the rest of you, and she seems like the one right now. But I've been here before with other "ones" and forgot about them. You will too. If you're younger than 30, play the field and have adventures. You have to start thinking about settling down at 30, so you have time and energy for kids if you want them. Above all remember your life is not over until you let it be. Don't fail and choose drink. Get back up and find what you want.
bluenote Posted May 28, 2014 Posted May 28, 2014 Some nice action movies-Non stop, The patrol, Escape plan,Elysium, two guns, Oblivion. I can't drink anymore for health reasons but I would have liked to share a traditional brew stew here, its made of a wild bery that is fermented. The good thing about this drink is that it doesn't read on the breathalizor so you can drive around causing havoc. I sit with same dilema myself, its like I have become supper sensitive to rejection by women. I used to find it a challenge just to prove to myself that I would/could get them. I would put a bet that I could take on any woman no matter her social,economic or otherwise status. Ithought that they are altimately just women. I learned a few tricks like talking to a woman and looking at her lips etc. of which confidence plays a large role, afterwards it was-thats it. I dont see myself as a player because I didnt just go for anyone and everyone. Now I feel like something deeper and with more feeling and the reciprocation is exactly what I was doing. The problem is when I didnt care, I could get any of the ones I set my mind on but now that I care I cant get anything to last. Now I just comfort myself with the conquests I've had.
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