the tank Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 Hi ! Yesterday i had my third date with a girl I met online. She is shy, introvert and single since two years . At the end of the date I tried to kiss her but she reject me . It got awkward . She told me that she want to wait the good moment.. I was confuse so I ask what we have between us , are we friend ? Are we seeing just each other ? She told me we are not friend and she didnt connect on the web site since our second date . I write an sms to excuse when i comeback home because i was still confuse. I also told her I will follow her rythm and I always had good time with her. She answer , dont worry about it I had a great day and she thanks me. This week because of our work schedule, I can only ask her out wednesday or thursday for a cofee /drink/walk. She have night shift friday to sunday. What should i do ? I understand that i will need to wait because of her shyness . How could i know she is ready for a kiss ?
Frank2thepoint Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 What should i do ? I understand that i will need to wait because of her shyness . How could i know she is ready for a kiss ? Well you already know you have to be patient. Don't focus too much on kissing her. Actually focus on getting to know her and showing genuine interest. This will let her know you really like her, which is what I'm assuming you want, not just wanting to kiss her. Once she is ready she will display a subtle sign, such as stepping in close to you, looking you in the eyes, and putting her hands on your arms or shoulders (well this is how I imagine it). 1
swhiteford01 Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 She likes you but wants to take time getting to know you. Hang in there and don't worry if she doesn't kiss you right away. She definitely likes you. 1
Author the tank Posted May 26, 2014 Author Posted May 26, 2014 Thanks for your answer . You are right I dont want to just kiss her. What I dont understand is that she showed sign that she was ready. I am thinking she may be more shy than I tought and dont like public display affection.
Frank2thepoint Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 I am thinking she may be more shy than I tought and dont like public display affection. I want to point out, would you be happy with this if she is a type of person that doesn't like public display of affection? This is something you should learn about her personality, if it aligns with yours, before you think about kissing her. 1
Author the tank Posted May 26, 2014 Author Posted May 26, 2014 I want to point out, would you be happy with this if she is a type of person that doesn't like public display of affection? This is something you should learn about her personality, if it aligns with yours, before you think about kissing her. Yes I would. I was more concern about the rejection and the confusion I had after. I guess I will see in the futur. It something i should ask her.
Author the tank Posted May 26, 2014 Author Posted May 26, 2014 I doubt that she'll go out with you anymore Why ? She wouldnt have text me back. She may be shy but she is direct . It something i like about her personality . She dont play game.
Assasda Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 Why ? She wouldnt have text me back. She may be shy but she is direct . It something i like about her personality . She dont play game. She texted you back to be nice. You put needy pressure on her. So I dont think she'll go out with you anymore. Keep us posted
Author the tank Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 She had a boyfriend two years ago, I will text her tonight . The worst that can happen is no answer...
zendi_1 Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 I agree with getting to know her! Wait until the 3rd date or something to see if she is ready for the kiss. But don't rush it. I would have also rejected the kiss on the first date!
Author the tank Posted May 27, 2014 Author Posted May 27, 2014 It was the third date , but we met online so the first one was short...
Author the tank Posted May 28, 2014 Author Posted May 28, 2014 Update : she answer... But we cant meet this week. She is on night shift this weekend(friday to sunday) and already have plan wed. and thursday night but thats okay , i think we need some time apart because of the last event !
Assasda Posted May 29, 2014 Posted May 29, 2014 Does my post make sense now? I dont lie. Anyway man. Women are just like catching the bus... Anotther one ever 15 minutes. Just try to be more patient next time, and not pressure the Lady
Author the tank Posted May 30, 2014 Author Posted May 30, 2014 Does my post make sense now? I dont lie. Anyway man. Women are just like catching the bus... Anotther one ever 15 minutes. Just try to be more patient next time, and not pressure the Lady It make sense and thanks for the advice . I make a rookie mistake . If she reject my next offer i will next her .
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