simplybrill Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 my man and I dont have a lot of time to be together, so when we are, I like it to be just us. He likes hanging out with his friends, and now..ugh..he wants "me" to hang out with his friends. I have a feeling I'm not really going to like his friends...lol. oh that's mean.. but its true. I like him, and I'm afraid he's going to change once he gets around his friends or something (my ex did this, it made me very mad and left out) Oi...but back to my point...is it bad, that I just want to hang with him, and not his friends? I dont do double dates. I just want HIM. yes...yes maybe I am a little selfish at the moment. But I am in love, sue me.
Hund1976 Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 I would hang out with his friends occasionally but tell him that you also want to have a lot of one on one time. You also shouldn't prejudge and decide you're not going to like his friends before you've even gotten to know them. You should be happy he wants you to be a part of his life.
Pocky Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Would you rather he hang out with his friends without you? You should reconsider your distaste for being around his friends. Especially when you haven't even met them. Many people would expect their significant other to understand that friend time is acceptable and not want you to even join in. Be thankful he wants to include you instead of leaving you home with nothing to do.
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