iamthedanger Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 I have known this girl for several years and I have always thought there was some interest from her. After a few years of not seeing her I have reconnected with her recently. I got the same vibes from her while out at a bar and at a party so I decided to chat her up a bit over text. However her texting does not reflect how she is in person at all which is making it very difficult to figure out what is going on. She seems to respond quick sometimes and others it takes her an hour or more to respond and the conversations are nothing exciting and more literal than playful. I asked her to come out one night to a bar with watch some music, not necessarily a date because I knew other people at the bar but she didn't. She agreed but over text she didn't seen overly enthused. We had a good time and conversation for the most part flowed, she asked me questions and was smiling the whole time but didn't seem as flirty as usual. She stayed by my side the whole night and really seemed to enjoy herself. A few odd things about the evening however which I think might mean she was just nervous is that she drank a few beers before I picked her up and there were a couple times during the night she would say something totally random. One of the things being that she admits she is horrible at talking to people. I didn't make any advancements and was really just trying to get to know her again but she seemed to have a good time. I made sure to touch her a little bit here and there (back,arm etc) and she didn't seem to mind but it didn't spark anything from what I could tell. I have been told she is pretty shy and also been told by other people's observations that she is into me. Now she hasn't responded to my last text. I would like to ask her out but I am unsure if her texting means anything or not. FWIW I am horrible talking on the phone so I avoid it at all costs.
Phantomu Posted May 27, 2014 Posted May 27, 2014 Like you said, maybe she is shy. Surprisingly there are a lot of people male/female that are this way. Take the initiative and try to direct it to a date or something. Nothing spectacular just to keep the pressure off. Think of something fun to do that you both can enjoy. Possibly even a day time activity. About the texting thing. Try hard not to over think that.. She could be busy or not know what to say OR shy like you said. Good luck. 1
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