wjh Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 he still tried to take off my clothes, I didn't want to, and at first I didn't even fill like kissing, but fine, i let him that. But I didn't want to have sex, and I hate it when I'm forced, and he almost torn my cardigan!! we had almost like a wrestling, he still touched/ peeked my boobs.... It was like our second date, i went out for dinner with him, thought he was funny, so went again for the second time, and agreed to check out his dorm room... and... Don't you think that is disrespectful? Or are all guys like that? Like they thought they're supposed to interpret NOs as Yes?!?! He's fun to hang out with, I'd want him as a friend, but if we go out on anymore "dates", I'm afraid it would turn out to be something worse that I dont want to... but I'd see him now and then, we go to closeby colleges, I have best friends at his school, so running away isnt the solution... what should I do? Guess I should just give up being friends with him altogether? how should I do it? What do I do?!
blind_otter Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 um. Are you serious? He tried to force sex on you. Stop talking to him.
Suz76 Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 OMG, don't even bother with this guy! What gives with him! WOW! I had a "boyfriend" like that. It was nothing but the same over and over again. Whatever he wanted, UGH! I told him to hit the train tracks, cuz this lifestyle was definately not for me. He could have cared less too, that was the funny thing. SO I had stuck around cuz I thought he was sweet and funny, and he was just trying to get a piece.
lexnmike4enomore Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 You didn't actually have sex with him correct? I would, with out a doubt, stay away from this guy. He could get violent next time you say no. Please, don't rationalize and say well he was this or he was mad because of that. It doesn't matter. Stop talking to him. It can only get worse. Do you actually see yourself having a relationship with this guy. I doubt it....so what's the use?
Hund1976 Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Stay away from this guy, sounds like an aspiring date raper.
FolderWife Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Sounds like attempted rape to me...you'd be an idiot to go out with him again. But if he does rape you, it's not your fault, and definately report it to the police.
emotionsmessmeup Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 I know...this guy i have my physical chemistry with... its funny...he knows i am not ready.. i have gone over ..sleep over like 3 times...and he has never forced me to do anything....NEVER and he does say he wants me bad...and that he has a headache coz of the hardon..lol but i havent gone beyond kissing...and he wont force me
Author wjh Posted February 11, 2005 Author Posted February 11, 2005 you guys are right, I'll be more careful of him now, yeah, that he was being "selfish" should've come up to me... the wrestling against it I guess lightened the heaviness of what was happening I guess... Yea.. other good qualities doesn't weigh out the fact that he wanna force sex thanks for the reminder guys :]
FoShizzleMyNizzle Posted February 11, 2005 Posted February 11, 2005 Like what others said, it was attempted rape or he was trying to force sex on you. Looks like he won't be getting a 3rd date anytime soon!
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