noob_saibot Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 just curious about some stories on here. the most F'd up thing an ex did,.not my last ex but my baby mom ,was. we were on our 5th year together, just got back from las vegas. a week later she dumped me out of no where. i tried to talk to her about it but she wouldnt. then she starts dating someone who was my friend a few days after that. pretty messed up. then she dumped him after 3 months and started dating another guy i knew. then she married him a month after that! and got pregnant after that! all in 4 months. and then she took me to court for our kid we have together and 4 years later i am still dealing with it! now i just kind of laugh because she dug her own grave and i am doing good and i won in court. but anyways, i am just wondering Whats the most F'd up thing an ex has done to you??? 1
Elle1975 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 mmh.. I talked about it in another post, here it goes One of my exes had his mom call me to break up with me. They were family friends, still well f' up. We were in our 20s. My recent ex, while breaking up, told me something well f'up too.. he said.. better to break up now than in two years, when he meets somebody else. I still have a hard time processing that one.
mrs rubble Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My X hubby went around spreading rumours that I'd stolen poison from work and was putting it in his food to try and kill him. I was devastated he'd said that. One of my friends told me. She said she'd sorta believed him (WTF!!) but then considered what sort of poison's I would've been able to get hold of at work and as she works in the same industry concluded that there was nothing I could've poisoned him with if even if I wanted to.
BC1980 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My recent ex, while breaking up, told me something well f'up too.. he said.. better to break up now than in two years, when he meets somebody else. I still have a hard time processing that one. That's some effed up logic. Man, that's cruel. My ex said "I'm sorry it took me 3 years to figure out that I don't see a future with you." What the heck was he doing for those 3 years? He was the one who kept saying he wanted to get married, claiming we were family, and saying I was such a good mom to his son. This dude seriously effed me up in the end. I still can't process most of the emotional trauma. It was all such a lie, and I fell for it. 2
Strength in Healing Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 After 4 years she said she lost the attraction 2 weeks later moved in with creepy co-worker 12 years older than her She admitted he is emotionally abusive and also has choked her and threatened to kill her once. Even after that, she still chose him.
Always Pondering Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Nothing violent or insane or crazy but still silly. It's either the fact that she loved talking about her exes or this one phrase she said around the time we broke up: "I miss being able to flirt with other people and I can't do that when I'm with you" or something along the lines of that. I mean, if you want to go around flirting with other guys then why were you even in a relationship with me? 2
STM206 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Left after 4 years, moved across the country to be with his ex. ****ER.
Eddie007 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My ex wife cheated on me with a co-worker. When I caught her I filed for divorce. This was almost 7 years ago. We have 2 children that were 6 and 8 at the time. About a year ago out of the blue my 15 y/o daughter asked me why I left them. I was puzzled by her question as I thought they knew what happened. When I explained it to her she burst into tears. She proceeded to tell me her mother has said I just up and left them because I was the one cheating. I was furious! When I confronted my ex she finally admitted what she did and said she did it because she did not want the kids to hate the man (who they still live with) that she cheated with. I guess she thought it was better they hate me. 1
Elle1975 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My ex wife cheated on me with a co-worker. When I caught her I filed for divorce. This was almost 7 years ago. We have 2 children that were 6 and 8 at the time. About a year ago out of the blue my 15 y/o daughter asked me why I left them. I was puzzled by her question as I thought they knew what happened. When I explained it to her she burst into tears. She proceeded to tell me her mother has said I just up and left them because I was the one cheating. I was furious! When I confronted my ex she finally admitted what she did and said she did it because she did not want the kids to hate the man (who they still live with) that she cheated with. I guess she thought it was better they hate me. That's f'up....... My dad left us in a sneaky kind of way. Long story. I can relate to your daughter. That's SO bad to have placed the blame on you for so many years..
hoping2heal Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My ex wife cheated on me with a co-worker. When I caught her I filed for divorce. This was almost 7 years ago. We have 2 children that were 6 and 8 at the time. About a year ago out of the blue my 15 y/o daughter asked me why I left them. I was puzzled by her question as I thought they knew what happened. When I explained it to her she burst into tears. She proceeded to tell me her mother has said I just up and left them because I was the one cheating. I was furious! When I confronted my ex she finally admitted what she did and said she did it because she did not want the kids to hate the man (who they still live with) that she cheated with. I guess she thought it was better they hate me. :eek::eek: I'm angry FOR you just reading that! It's bad enough to blame someone else for your cheating and twist the story but, to hurt your own children so deeply just to save face and avoid taking responsibility? WOOOOOOW No words. 3
Strength in Healing Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Yeah, Eddie takes the cake. This topic has a winner. 2
JustC Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 I had met the guy in high school and we dated for three years. I switched to a college campus closer to him. Not to be closer to him, it just had classes that I needed. One morning, I had a FEELING and I drove to a friends house early in the morning before class. I saw his truck outside of her apartment. Her place was gated but I am tiny and innocent-looking and I just waited for someone to walk through and let me in. I showed up exactly as he was leaving her place. She freaked out and slammed the door shut and I simply walked away. He proceeded to stalk me for months. Showing up outside of my night classes, calling nonstop. He finally started threatening to kill me, my parents, and the new guy I started seeing. He even lied to his mother and grandmother and said that I had TAKEN money from him that he needed for his son. That guy not only borrowed but STOLE thousands of dollars from me over the years. (I was young and in love. Aka, dumb.) He had showed up at a night class to give me $700 as a start to "pay me back". When he realized that paying me back did not equal I'd go back to him, he wanted the money back. :roll eyes: This is how I learned how HORRIBLE the American system is for dealing with matters like these. The harassment finally ended when he got arrested for second degree murder. Seven years later, he found god and Facebook and tried to contact me again. Blocking worked well enough. 1
Hello201 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Said she didnt love me when she broke up with me and she got it wrong I said you lied then she said if you want to call it that , I said don't lie to anyone else or yourself in the future eh What else can you do ?
FredJones80 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 She gave up the best man in her life, better than any before and better than any to come Winner? 4
Amelie1980 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Blamed me for the break up and engineered it to look that way. But they were cheating and I had done nothing wrong. 1
Natsume21 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 I don't think I got a winner here but here it goes. A year ago, on this date, actually, EXACTLY a year ago, on this very date, she ditched a date of ours to go with a co-worker to a track meet. 6 days later, comes to me and says she wants a break but doesn't want to break up. Breaks up with me later and I find out she was cheating on me with said-co worker. When I confronted her about it, a series of chain events set off. 1. She turns her already racist mother against me even more by saying that I broke up her brother and his girlfriend when that wasn't even relevant to me catching her cheating. 2. Tries to make it up to me by saying she was giving me a job opportunity through connections that would require me to move up there with her(or so she said) which brings us to no. 3 3. Ditches me for said boyfriend and leaves me homeless for a few days. 4. When confronted, calls me a stalker and files a restraining order on me, later stating that her parents filed it. Talk about 3 years down the drain.
Wings Of Love Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Hmm, first ex broke up with me, had a girlfriend within a week (and then several more when she left him). Messaged me after my nephew was born saying he wanted to have kids with me, then in the same sentence told me he loved me like a sister. I mean seriously, wtf?! Last ex broke up with me a week after our anniversary. He went and told his entire family that I was always attempting to commit suicide, but I can safely say I would NOT kill myself just because of a man. He deleted me from FB, added me again a day later. Got angry when I ignored his request for weeks on end. Then when I finally (stupidly) accepted, he added some girl on Facebook that he claimed to have never seen or heard of before, and tagged her in loving posts saying how much he missed her and how amazing she was. Maybe not too messed up, but still pretty hurtful.
candie13 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 Dated him for 7 years - LDR for the last 4. I was getting a lot of pressure at work - so I tell him that I need him closer - or a sense of security - like getting engaged. He says of course, we tell his family - and mine, drink champagne and celebrate a great Easter. By June, still no ring or anything. In September we have a random talk... and the guy is **** scared. Like literally. So I break up with him, because he is obviously not ready or willing to commit to me. I was devastated to realize that not only was my career going down the drain, but also my love life, all of my identity. So, in order to not feel guilty, when I told him to just come and take his things from my place - gave him the keys and left for 5 days... well, when I came back, the dude was expecting me with a ring. Who's want to get married this way? So be extra sure that I really get traumatized, he had me say no to the ring - ring that I'd been hinting at for a least an year... we'd even been visiting a few shops, together. And of course, after I said no to the ring, kept calling every day for at least three months, in a row. Not to get me back, but to complain of just how much he's hurting. He was calling me, his dad was calling me, his mom was calling me, his sister was calling me, his cats were calling me... speak about guilt trip, took me years to get over that and get me **** together. oh well, at least, there were no kids involved.
Elle1975 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 . He was calling me, his dad was calling me, his mom was calling me, his sister was calling me, his cats were calling me lol dam.. it was a family affair O.o That must be weird to be dating LDR after 3 years.
No Limit Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 My ex wife cheated on me with a co-worker. When I caught her I filed for divorce. This was almost 7 years ago. We have 2 children that were 6 and 8 at the time. About a year ago out of the blue my 15 y/o daughter asked me why I left them. I was puzzled by her question as I thought they knew what happened. When I explained it to her she burst into tears. She proceeded to tell me her mother has said I just up and left them because I was the one cheating. I was furious! When I confronted my ex she finally admitted what she did and said she did it because she did not want the kids to hate the man (who they still live with) that she cheated with. I guess she thought it was better they hate me. Oh boy, I'm so lucky I got to stay with my mother when they divorced, my father would have probably tried something similar. And I probably would have spat him in the face every day if I had been given closure by my mom like you told the truth to your daughter. I hope this didn't mess her up too much.
Bewitched33 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 I found out my boyfriend of 3 years was breaking up with me when I received an email from a friend at his workplace announcing he had turned his notice in and had taken a job 2+hours away. The friend said "congrats! I didn't know you were moving to xxx". My ex never called, texted, talked, or responded to me when I questioned him. Months later I met a wonderful guy and have never been happier. My bf and I went to a hockey game and sat in the companies box seats. In came my ex. Alone. Apparently, they work for the same company just different divisions. I have to admit it felt great to watch him squirm. 1
Elle1975 Posted May 25, 2014 Posted May 25, 2014 I have to share my eye doctor experience... Last time I saw her, she was dating this guy. Last week I went for a check up, and I asked her about the bf. They had moved in together after a year of dating. After 3 years of dating, they broke up. Turns out the guy was slowly moving his stuff out of the house over a period of three weeks, without telling her. She caught up on it and confronted him. She tells me he's trying to get back together, but #1 her trust is gone #2 he's clearly keeping her on the back burner. I find it pretty f'up to be sneakily moving out that way. 1
Confusedbylove Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 Telling me she is going on a date with another guy.....
flitzanu Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 an ex of mine took a pic from my facebook page of one of my tattoos and submitted it to failblog under the worst tattoos section. a random unrelated friend out of state messaged me one day pointing it out, that his wife found it on the site and thought it was me, as i had no idea, and it was. even had her name as the username that submitted it. i felt really special because that was a lot of trouble for something i'd likely never even see.
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted May 26, 2014 Posted May 26, 2014 just curious about some stories on here. the most F'd up thing an ex did,.not my last ex but my baby mom ,was. we were on our 5th year together, just got back from las vegas. a week later she dumped me out of no where. i tried to talk to her about it but she wouldnt. then she starts dating someone who was my friend a few days after that. pretty messed up. then she dumped him after 3 months and started dating another guy i knew. then she married him a month after that! and got pregnant after that! all in 4 months. and then she took me to court for our kid we have together and 4 years later i am still dealing with it! now i just kind of laugh because she dug her own grave and i am doing good and i won in court. but anyways, i am just wondering Whats the most F'd up thing an ex has done to you??? I don't wanna answer the question but it's AWESOME that someone's still keeping the classic 90s Mortal Kombat alive! 1
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