Friskyone4u Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Just realized it was you who posted about wife and friend getting drunk and flirting and her disrespecting you a little while ago. The advice you got then was there was something seriously wrong but it looks like you did not take it seriously enough when you were told to cut him out of your life and tell your wife what she was telling you was bull ****. Your wife is the culprit here. You have got to divorce her and don't look back 2
Spectre Posted June 1, 2014 Posted June 1, 2014 Why are so many people so quick to call people trolls? I always found this weird. People may find a story or a persons behavior very hard to believe, but we live in a world with billions of people. Over 300 million in the USA alone, and they come in all shapes and sizes, and some of them react differently to situations then you do. Some things can be rare or hard to believe, but not out of the realm of possibility. I am not saying I can guarantee this person isn't a troll, but rather..if I'm going to decide to actually reply to his threads then it serves no purpose calling him a troll then, because if I feel he is a troll why am I bothering? So until someone says something REALLY hard to believe, I take them at their word. This day and age, people are frickin crazy, and really nothing surprises me. I've seen so many topics here, so many where people treat others they "love" in ways I can't even fathom, but it doesn't shock me anymore. Love makes people do crazy and stupid sh*t, and that goes for people merely in lust too.
Author caliborn82 Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 Why are so many people so quick to call people trolls? I always found this weird. People may find a story or a persons behavior very hard to believe, but we live in a world with billions of people. Over 300 million in the USA alone, and they come in all shapes and sizes, and some of them react differently to situations then you do. Some things can be rare or hard to believe, but not out of the realm of possibility. I am not saying I can guarantee this person isn't a troll, but rather..if I'm going to decide to actually reply to his threads then it serves no purpose calling him a troll then, because if I feel he is a troll why am I bothering? So until someone says something REALLY hard to believe, I take them at their word. This day and age, people are frickin crazy, and really nothing surprises me. I've seen so many topics here, so many where people treat others they "love" in ways I can't even fathom, but it doesn't shock me anymore. Love makes people do crazy and stupid sh*t, and that goes for people merely in lust too. The reason why I was asking should I show this thread to her was because one of my other friends said that when you show someone from YOUR point of view what they did it sometimes will open their eyes a bit and make them see how their actions affect others..
Author caliborn82 Posted June 2, 2014 Author Posted June 2, 2014 You did not give much detail, but from what she is saying unless you improve in the sack she will do it again with someone else. Your friend is truly a scum bag, and unless you did not believe him or pissed him off I can't imagine what woe motivate him to want to shove those pictures in front of you. If he had do e that to me he would not have bed standing upright for too long. Your wife has no respect for you at all and unless that changes dramatically I don't know how you can even look at her without getting pissed beyond control Get rid of her, quick! I did snatch his phone from him and broke it up...temporary satisfaction BTW...
Friskyone4u Posted June 2, 2014 Posted June 2, 2014 (edited) Why on earth would you want to show this thread to your wife and "friend" if you want to call him that. They didn't give a crap what you would think. Haven't they humiliated you enough or are you going to give them an opportunity for a repeat performance. You think they care what I think about them. If he had showed me those pictures more than the phone would have been broken Edited June 2, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
10thengineerharrison Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 The reason why I was asking should I show this thread to her was because one of my other friends said that when you show someone from YOUR point of view what they did it sometimes will open their eyes a bit and make them see how their actions affect others.. But here's the point: Showing her this thread would give her the people on this forums' point of view, not necessarily yours. The most useful thing you can do about this sitch you're in is to "show" her YOUR point of view, which should be to say, firmly, that you're no longer interested in being her husband. -10th Engineer Harrison
billy baru Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 Leave quickly. Find someone who'll be loyal and worthy of your trust.
Chi townD Posted June 6, 2014 Posted June 6, 2014 NO! Do not show her this site. This is your safe place to vent and get advice. Now, for the bad news. You're friend isn't the only one. That's just the one you know about. She's probably done this with others before your friend. Why do I think this? Because she felt comfortable enough to do this with your friend knowing that there's an increased chance of getting caught. She doesn't sound remorseful and to put the blame on you for something that was severely traumatic to you as a child is low and shady. Dude, this isn't your fault. She made a choice, and that choice was betray you. Dude, you never stated if she is, in fact, remorseful. 1
y2k Posted June 10, 2014 Posted June 10, 2014 Leave quickly. Find someone who'll be loyal and worthy of your trust. Yeah. If someone cheats on you (or if you cheated), then the marriage should end. It is irrelevant if kids are involved (be adults and handle custody legally and in a mature matter). Get out now and re-do your life. It may be tough to do, but you'll be way happier after you do it.
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