Chan Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 do you compare your current partner to previous partners?i'm curious as ive only had one sexual partner who i am currently with? Link to post Share on other sites
AmHopeful Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 I 'try' not to- but I am human. Everyone is a little different, besides I think I'm also different with others. Link to post Share on other sites
Israfil Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 for sure. And the next one better be better than the last, or they are fired. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Yeah.. I guess in a lot of ways I do. EXBF Sexually~ This could've been the single reason to stay in the relationship.. yes it was that good. Emotionally~ He is totally bankrupt Physically~ 5'7, Hispanic, A Marine, Nice to look at.. Mentally~ A total whack job who wanted to control me and own me My BF NOW Sexually~ Again.. this could be a reason to stay there.. although he isn't as *Freaky* as my EX is/was it's still a new relationship.. so yeah, we have time Emotionally~ He has trust issues.. but he's there for me when I need him and he's helping me with my issues Physically~ 6'3, Half Sioux Indian, A mechanic, Nice to look at.. Mentally~ Smart, Stable.. give me my space.. Link to post Share on other sites
billybadass36 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Yes. If your current partner ever asks you how they rate, even if it's not true, tell them that they blow everyone else out of the water. I learned this one the hard way... Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by Israfil for sure. And the next one better be better than the last, or they are fired. Neexxxxtttttt! Link to post Share on other sites
billybadass36 Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 "tell them that they blow everyone else out of the water" This pun was not intended. Fitting, but unintentional. Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 i usually do not remember past partners....unless there was extreme pleasure or extreme displeasure. i just take it all in as experience. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 I've only had 2 bfs in my life. Shorlty after I've started sleeping with the second, I can tell ou I was dissapointed. And it was normal, as I was breaking the routine. As the relationship progressed, so did our sex life and I've learnt to enjoy a whole lotta other stuff. Right now it's by far the best. So it's not as much what it is, but what you make of it. Link to post Share on other sites
GirlDown Posted February 10, 2005 Share Posted February 10, 2005 i think it's only natural... but "compare" makes it sound like point by point,bullet by bullet you're pinning one against the other, which sounds bad, but seriously...who doesn't at least think to themselves "i wish he/she had the same height as...." or "thank the ever-loving-lord that he/she doesn't do.....like the last one!" it's not like you erase the last person's existence or the time you wasted, *ahem* spent, with them when you break up... Link to post Share on other sites
ziggue Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 My current boyfriend has been the best I've gone out with so far. . Link to post Share on other sites
Sweeper211 Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 Yep!and thank God constantly that my wife is nothing like my ex Link to post Share on other sites
Natalie Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 My ex used to tell me that being with a virgin was the best thing for a man, because she wouldn't have anyone to compare him with..... ...He wasn't a virgin when I met him though.... .....He was very insecure and what I hated the most was whenever we were about to have sex, he'd run to the bathroom to rub his thing with "Mandelay" or any of those stuff. Imagine that! I wasn't a virgin either when I met him, and that idea haunted him our whole relationship through. I don't compare, or let's say I do, but it wouldn't make me sad or anything if it turned out to be different than I thought. As long as I love the person, we could have fun in many different ways. I'd never tell the truth about the size though. Some things are best to be left alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted February 15, 2005 Share Posted February 15, 2005 My husband is a step up for me so I actually compare my past lovers to him in the sense that I think he's superior to them. Link to post Share on other sites
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