youdunsay Posted June 15, 2014 Posted June 15, 2014 The first one did absolutely nothing for me. The second one was handsome. While both may be aesthetically pleasing to many if they were dumb, stuck up, boring, mean, bigoted or otherwise had bad personalities, they wouldn't go far. The take away for anybody seeking to reinvent themselves is that both men radiated an air of self confidence. They were happy in their own skin. Until you like yourself nobody else will like you either. Agree. Do you watch soccer? If so, you must know some star players such as Cristiano Ronaldo or Lionel Messi. There is this particular soccer player Sergio whom I find him attractive. Not his looks, but he has this optimistic personality which makes him charming.
Author John316C Posted June 18, 2014 Author Posted June 18, 2014 I have a good-looking face, but I'm short. I also have a charming personality. The combination of these things brings out the motherly instinct in women. Generally, if I have a female boss, I'm able to get away with murder because of this. I feel that this has positively impacted me career-wise. As far as with dating, short girls love me. Average height girls, it's hit or miss. Tall girls, it's usually a no (though not always). I'd imagine that these guys would get whatever they wanted, unless they are EXTREMELY socially awkward. does not knowing what to say and looking away a lot/being green mean extremely socially awkward?
Do_The_Herp Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 I think that I have a similar look to the second guy. Surely a fair share of the opposite sex have looked at me in passing and thought "ehh, he's too skinny/short/feminine".. But I don't believe myself to be any of those things, personally, and don't really care what they think so long as they keep their subjective opinions to themselves. I don't think that I'm socially awkward, but I don't have a social life, which is crippling all the same and grants one no options or opportunity in the realm of dating. The guy who actually leaves his house to go hang out at the local watering hole is better off than I am, no matter what he looks like, if it means that he's sitting next to a couple of cuties, one of whom may just be drunk enough to want to talk to him.
Do_The_Herp Posted June 18, 2014 Posted June 18, 2014 does not knowing what to say and looking away a lot/being green mean extremely socially awkward? Umm... Generally, yes. It's not really about what you say, so long as it's even vaguely relevant to the situation so as to not be totally random and out of left field.. It's about how you say it, really. Look for ANYTHING to say, even if it's predictable ****, just say it confidently and without having a panic attack. It's not a big issue. Learn to look someone in the eyes.. They're not thinking anything of it. It's basic confident body language.. Stare into their eyes like you're staring at their naked souls, cowering at your intimidating confidence. Try not to look like a serial killer, either... Eh.. It's a fine line.
Recommended Posts