dmmm Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 I've tried for the last 5+ years reading books on being an alpha male etc. But it's basically dawned on me that I will NEVER be that guy. I'm way off for many reasons. So rather than aiming to change myself into an alpha what else is important to be to have successful relationships? Is it possible to be closer to a "beta" male and have a happy successful love life?
Gaeta Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 Where did you get that you needed to be an Alpha male to have a successful relationship? Alpha males aren't easy to deal with, they are far from being great relationship material. I much much prefer Omega males.
Strength in Healing Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 I've been alpha and non-alpha and I can't really discern a huge difference in numbers of girls. I think they just want confident. ANYWAYS... Look at everyone out there who is married. You think they are all alpha? Exactly. But do tell, what traits can you NOT achieve?
Potz4prez Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 Alpha-male is more like being a predator... and not all that mature. All you have to do is be a man. 1
Author dmmm Posted May 24, 2014 Author Posted May 24, 2014 But do tell, what traits can you NOT achieve? Where do I start. Confidence - I know the big one Decisiveness Having a passion in life Being comfortable in my own skin Being able to lead The is is endless!
Dallers Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 It is quite simple really, stop thinking about changing the person you are and take a damn good look at the person you are looking for! I have found that I look for the type of girl that is not the one that goes for me because that is what we do we look for something we cannot have. I have realised that the girl I used to look for would cause me nothing but heartache and trouble and that is because I am trying be someone who is not right for me by playing the alpha which I am not. I have alpha tendencies but they would only gain me a girl that needs them which is not the women I want in my life. Start going for the girl you actually want not the girl you think you want if you are not the alpha male who gives a s*it.
John316C Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 no. you have to be an alpha male if you want a leadership position or you want any kind of woman of high social status. are we all alpha males? obviously no
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