light_saber23 Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 i'll try to keep this as brief as possible. There is a girl in my college, that i like. She didmt know me but on her last birthday i sent her a wish, (which was well written ) and we started to talk. We started off incredible and i fell for the girl, like really. Then i asked her out and she agreed...but for some reasons, the 'Date' didnt happen. But we kept on meeting and stuff and i think she was interested in me. But then, suddenly she got committed to a guy she never told me about. and people close to her told me that she loved that guy for a long time. After some time, i told her about my feelings, and she gave me the same friend but not lover speech. after then our meetings got fewer until they finally stopped. Sometime later she texted me out of the blue 'i wanted you as a friend always' and stuff like that. When i asked her what the reason was behind our stop, she said that there were so many. I asked but somehow her boyfriend managed to not let us meet. after that, we've not talked. Its been $ months and she's still with that guy. I know that nothing could happen now so thats that. Now, her birthday is coming and i just want to wish her and give her something, not materialisitic. She loves a song and there's a story behind that song. I just want her to know that and i know it will mean a lot to her. So, my question is, should i do this? if yes, what would she think about it? because i dont want her to think that i'm a desperate douchebag crying out for attention. I love her, and i've almost let her go. But i really want to do this. i dont expect any change in the scenario with it. whats your take?
Dallers Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 i'll try to keep this as brief as possible. There is a girl in my college, that i like. She didmt know me but on her last birthday i sent her a wish, (which was well written ) and we started to talk. We started off incredible and i fell for the girl, like really. Then i asked her out and she agreed...but for some reasons, the 'Date' didnt happen. But we kept on meeting and stuff and i think she was interested in me. But then, suddenly she got committed to a guy she never told me about. and people close to her told me that she loved that guy for a long time. After some time, i told her about my feelings, and she gave me the same friend but not lover speech. after then our meetings got fewer until they finally stopped. Sometime later she texted me out of the blue 'i wanted you as a friend always' and stuff like that. When i asked her what the reason was behind our stop, she said that there were so many. I asked but somehow her boyfriend managed to not let us meet. after that, we've not talked. Its been $ months and she's still with that guy. I know that nothing could happen now so thats that. Now, her birthday is coming and i just want to wish her and give her something, not materialisitic. She loves a song and there's a story behind that song. I just want her to know that and i know it will mean a lot to her. So, my question is, should i do this? if yes, what would she think about it? because i dont want her to think that i'm a desperate douchebag crying out for attention. I love her, and i've almost let her go. But i really want to do this. i dont expect any change in the scenario with it. whats your take? You would be doing it just for you, to her it would mean nothing because she does not see you that way. It is best not to do it but then again it is your choice, I think you may feel better when you do it at the time but then when you realise that actually you wanted something to happen from it and it doesn't you will feel terrible. It is best to move on and try and forget this girl, she made it clear she only saw you as a friend and was as nice as possible letting down. Sometimes it is harder that way but still it is what it is. We have all been there. It hurts. Time to let it go. If you do not do it that is a good start.
Author light_saber23 Posted May 24, 2014 Author Posted May 24, 2014 thanks, that helped. I am kinda too skeptical about this so i figure i actually wont do it.
ja123 Posted May 24, 2014 Posted May 24, 2014 Yeah, don't do it. You'll end up looking pathetic to boot ...
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