tito1501 Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Hello everyone ! Firstly, have a great weekend ! Me and my ex-girlfriend had a serious relationship for 2 and a half years and she broke up with me 2 years ago because I was no longer giving importance to our relationship and was treating her coldly. But since she decided to break up , everytime I am totally strong and confident about our broke-up she emerges from nothing saying she loves me more than anything and stating that she can no longer live well without me. The thing is that, when it happens, I am already having dates with other girls but when she tells me those things, I TOTALLY CRUMBLE, I forget all the other girls and I always fall into the deep illusion that she is the same girl I loved, but she is not guys, I can affirm you that, time has changed her A LOT, selfishness is one of her downsides now. What is your advice for me not only to forget her forever but also to keep her alway all the time. It hurts A LOT to take this decision but I have tried a few times to get together with her again, but everytime it is a deception, I am not entering details. Thank you!
stateofgrace Posted May 23, 2014 Posted May 23, 2014 Well.. if you know you don't like the person she's become and you know you don't want to enter a relationship with her again, then you can do one of two things.. 1) Don't respond. 2) Tell her to stop saying these things because you are no longer interested and don't want to hear it. Be strong and stand up for yourself. She's being selfish and is trying to make it so you can't move on. Try not to let it get to you. Have some self-respect and don't let her control your emotions. She won't stop unless you make her stop. She knows it gets to you, that's why she's doing it. 1
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