Saxonhook Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Ok so I have been separated now from my ex fiancée for nearly 6 months, in all honesty I've tried to move in and date someone else but it just doesn't work for me. At one point me and my ex was talking and she wasn't sure if she wanted her new guy it me, unfortunately that was several months ago and as u can tell she chose him. However now every week I seem to get a txt out of the blue for once not about our children but asking how I am, I then go on to ask her and she is all miserable and not happy with her job, car and her relationship. This has now happened several times over the last few weeks to the point she said recently we are like a see saw neither of us are happy to which i responded weid this has only happened since we broke up. Again yesterday we had to go to my sons school and we then spent the morning relaxing and talking just the 2 of us and it felt right again. I asked her if she is happier now than when we were together and she said no, so I have said why not give it another go neither have anything to lose we both miss what we had. Now I don't know what to do as it's obvious she misses us, I miss us and it seems right, but she keeps saying I don't know and she doesn't want to talk about it, I've asked her if she wants me to stop fighting for her and us and she won't answer the question and won't talk about it, I know she has a new bf but this woman is the love of my life and the mother of my kids so I couldn't care about him really. This is getting all too much for me again as it seems the logical thing to do but her refusal to admit she made a mistake in ending it and her stubborn side just can't seem to let go. Any advice guys as this is tearing me apart
siwain Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I don't know if I can give any advice though I'd like to be able to. She seems confused and is probably having a hard time accepting that her choice wasn't the best one. She may also be insecure because of whatever reason that made her break up with you in the first place. I say give her time and space to sort out her feelings.... good luck and I'm sorry I can't give you better advice. 1
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