loulopi Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 what do you say in response? just curious "alright figured i would give it a shot"? "oh damn" "oh ok, sorry about that" any others?
you_can_not_see_me Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Last time this happened to me (4 weeks ago), I just looked at her for a second or two, until she said she still wanted to stay friends though. and I said sure, in a disappointed tone. I really doesn't matter what you say at that point.
Assasda Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Last time this happened to me (4 weeks ago), I just looked at her for a second or two, until she said she still wanted to stay friends though. and I said sure, in a disappointed tone. I really doesn't matter what you say at that point. Naa, it totally matters. Because 50% of the time, there is no boyfriend. So if you act defeated, or angry, it just shows what type of person you are 3
Lani Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Naa, it totally matters. Because 50% of the time, there is no boyfriend. So if you act defeated, or angry, it just shows what type of person you are You are correct.. 50% of the time there is no boyfriend. But 100% of the time she's not interested. 4
Omei Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Damn! Now who's going to look after my boner?Lol good one
Author loulopi Posted May 22, 2014 Author Posted May 22, 2014 you do? oh alright, just though i would give it a shot
ja123 Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Say: "I'm not surprised. You are a beautiful woman. I'm sure you can tell that my designs are not platonic. But seeing as you're not free (give a big smile and a wink), I wish you well with him." (Back up from her while smiling cheekily and holding her gaze, then quickly turn with intention and walk away. Don't look back. She'll never forget you.) 1
bubbaganoosh Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Say, Well he can do a lot better, I can't so you'll do. Get naked.
Author loulopi Posted May 22, 2014 Author Posted May 22, 2014 Always show class. Thank her and give a mild compliment. She may have single girlfriends, etc. Next time you see her give a nice smile and little wave. We women really judge a guy by how he handles adversity. Often we have had an immature or passive/aggressive partner in the past. It's refreshing to meet a guy with class. If you are at a dance, event, etc. and she is with a friend and sees you...what better reference is there than her telling her friend 'he seems like a really nice guy'. That is what we women want to hear above everything else.' this keeps her in your mind
Trane Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 "Oh well, can't blame me for trying can ya my dear? You're a good looking lady." That is all I personally would say to her and leave it at that. By society rules, if you're a guy who's not considered in the top tier/top echelon of height and attractiveness you will get creep stamped or maybe get a warning from the harassment police. If you're a guy with all the good looks she desires, she might hesitate in saying "no" to you, just to gauge your level of interest. Some women who have no interest or attraction for a guy after he's approached her, will say she has a boyfriend just to let him down easy. I agree with what others are saying here. Often, the ladies who are approached don't necessarily have a boyfriend. Using this excuse is the easiest way to not hurt a guys feelings aside from the truth.
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