liklik123 Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) Hi, So I'm on an online dating site, and I was chatting with this guy about a year ago. We exchanged quite a few messages, but he never ended up asking me out, so I moved on. A few weeks ago, he messaged me again and said we may get along and wanted to get together. We ended up messaging back a few weeks (I preferred to meet on the weekdays and his schedule was pretty busy with work). He offered to meet up with me during a weekday trying to get out of work event, but I said why not just meet on the weekend, and he said he'd get back to me. So the weekend comes and goes, no word from him, but I know he's logging onto the site. I pretty much gave it up, but then yesterday, he messages apologizing for not getting back to me over the weekend saying that he had to go into work on Sunday and lost track of the whole online dating thing. That doesnt make much sense to me given that he was logging on over the weekend. I'm looking for something serious, and I feel he's kind of a flake. Would you ladies give a guy like this a chance? Thanks! Edited May 22, 2014 by liklik123
Potz4prez Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Sounds like a flake. He probably had dates with other girls scheduled on the weekend already.
halfcrazed_i Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Well yeah, a little dodgy. Go with your gut with this one. There's a chance he might be juggling a few girls so he's been a little delayed in scheduling your date.
Author liklik123 Posted May 22, 2014 Author Posted May 22, 2014 Sorry, one thing I wanted to mention. He actually offered the weekend first, so that's why I said it was ok for him to get back to me about the weekend. I'm not sure if that changes much, but i guess what bothered me was, fine, you had to work on the weekend, but why not just keep me updated then?
Scorpio Chick Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I would not give him any more chances. Don't forget, he could be married. The not being able to see you on a weekend could indicate that.
Assasda Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I would not give him any more chances. Don't forget, he could be married. The not being able to see you on a weekend could indicate that. Lol, He could be married? He could also be a serial killer, couldnt he? He could be a misogynist? The man hate on this site can get downright stupid. Anyway, bottom line is, you dont know anything about this man. You know nothing. All you probably know is, "We may get along" So, you can go out with him, and get to know him a little better, or you can just ask what if, and keep on searching online 1
Iguanna Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 I'm looking for something serious, and I feel he's kind of a flake. Would you ladies give a guy like this a chance? Thanks! No. With capital letters. My opinion is that a person who is daring (or willing to date) gives their 110% of their best self. If I start seeing stupid things, little lies etc during the first dates (or in your case before even dating) I never give chances. I just realize that, if he's like this now, before even meeting, when people want to be liked, imagine what will happen after he's gotten used to you.
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