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Is dating an Asian Male not "cool"? whats the concensus?


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now, i am about to make a generalization, and it needs to be noted that it's only a generalization, which is not intend to offend anyone.

 

we definitely see more white guys with asian girls than white girls with asian guys. the obvious reason: westerners are fasinated by asian women (hispanics, pacific islanders...etc).

 

but no matter the reason, if you arent attracted to them, then u are not, there is no reason for it. the object of our affection has to be attractive to our eyes or our soul. if neither is present, then there is no spark!

 

i am Asian (100% chinese), and i have dated just about any race (except my own, weird). i am about to go to my friend's wedding (he is chinese, she is white), so it definitely happens.

 

a friend of mine (an american born chinese) who used to date outside his race throughout high school, but has slowly changed to asian girls, preferrably Chinese girls. he told me that Chinese girls have different culture, traditions...etc than other american girls, they are more family oriented which is very important to him. he wants someone who is neat, clean, can cook, speak at least two languages...etc, all those qualities seem to apply to many Asian girls. so in conclusion, he wants a girl who shares his culture. simple as that.

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now, i am about to make a generalization, and it needs to be noted that it's only a generalization, which is not intend to offend anyone.

 

we definitely see more white guys with asian girls than white girls with asian guys. the obvious reason: westerners are fasinated by asian women (hispanics, pacific islanders...etc).

 

a friend of mine (an american born chinese) who used to date outside his race throughout high school, but has slowly changed to asian girls, preferrably Chinese girls. he told me that Chinese girls have different culture, traditions...etc than other american girls, they are more family oriented which is very important to him. he wants someone who is neat, clean, can cook, speak at least two languages...etc, all those qualities seem to apply to many Asian girls. so in conclusion, he wants a girl who shares his culture. simple as that.

 

 

oh dear honkongchick

 

your generalization negates its power since your status as the elevated object.

so, u r basically saying "generally" WM are crazy about AF because the culture difference while AM are "preferring"--after experencing all other cultures--AF because they share the homogenuities?

 

Is this statement contradictory only to me?

 

I'd rather believe that all are fancinated to westerners' culture and their lookings because AM, AF, WF tend to long WM.--of course AM does to WF ;P

 

OH, just to avoid this generalization lacking reliability, I am ASIAN MALE

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