yuesko Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 We had a coffee date on our first date. I felt a little nervous but she didn't. She told me she had a boy friend already and she told me we aren't perfect match. She told me she won't mind hang out with me sometimes as friend if I want. She also told me she can introduce her friends to me if I need a girl friend. Omg...I don't know what she thinking. Can I have a chance if I don't give up or back off?
Dallers Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 We had a coffee date on our first date. I felt a little nervous but she didn't. She told me she had a boy friend already and she told me we aren't perfect match. She told me she won't mind hang out with me sometimes as friend if I want. She also told me she can introduce her friends to me if I need a girl friend. Omg...I don't know what she thinking. Can I have a chance if I don't give up or back off? She doesn't like you like that. She has a boyfriend. She want's to be friends. What part of ^^^ do you not understand? You are just attention to her and that is what she wants, EGO. You feel like this because you cannot have her, and she knows that. Wake up fella! Quickly. 1
ChooseTruth Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 She sounds like trouble to me. Why was she even having coffee with you if she has a bf? I wouldn't trust her. 1
Assasda Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 If she told you all of that crap while you were out to coffee. - Dude, you must be super lame. - Take her up on her offer and let her introduce you to her friends. And see other women bro
spiderowl Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 She went on a date with you but she already had a boyfriend? What kind of girl is this and why are you going on a date with someone already attached? Regardless, she is being off-putting. I would back off, be casual, and leave her to get in touch (and leave her boyfriend) before you even consider getting more involved in this.
Charlie Harper Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 RUN FOREST RUNNNNNN... She is a player... easy catch only if: You want to get laid May have troubles with EX boyfriend. Drama Queen troubles You really don't care about her. My Opinion...She is not worth the trouble, she friend zoned you and although she is honest, it doesn't mean she will make a good match.
Haydaman712 Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Here's a simple solution. First. NEVER EVER take a girl you're romantically interested in out for coffee on your first date. That's what friends do. And she's trying to friend zone you. She has the right to do that. But you also have the right to refuse it. She does not get to dictate 100% of the terms of what your relationship is to both of you. That simple. And guess what, her friends are going to think you're weak because she has to introduce you. Don't fall into the trap. Because you're just going to meet more female "friends" and you're going to be miserable trying to be with them when they don't want you. If you really think she's incredible. Grow some balls dude and stand up for yourself. But do it nicely. Politely tell her no thanks to being friends. And if she ever changes her mind, to get in touch. Then walk away from her completely. I've accepted offers like this from girls I wanted, only to have my feelings grow immensely for them over time. And when I finally cave and confess my love, I get rejected. She sees a guy who has just lied to her all this time, because he wasn't man enough to tell the truth off the bat. You see a cold-hearted bitch who has just rejected you and has no feelings. Nobody wins. Make it easier for yourself bro.
Assasda Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Here's a simple solution. First. NEVER EVER take a girl you're romantically interested in out for coffee on your first date. That's what friends do. And she's trying to friend zone you. She has the right to do that. But you also have the right to refuse it. She does not get to dictate 100% of the terms of what your relationship is to both of you. That simple. And guess what, her friends are going to think you're weak because she has to introduce you. Don't fall into the trap. Because you're just going to meet more female "friends" and you're going to be miserable trying to be with them when they don't want you. If you really think she's incredible. Grow some balls dude and stand up for yourself. But do it nicely. Politely tell her no thanks to being friends. And if she ever changes her mind, to get in touch. Then walk away from her completely. I've accepted offers like this from girls I wanted, only to have my feelings grow immensely for them over time. And when I finally cave and confess my love, I get rejected. She sees a guy who has just lied to her all this time, because he wasn't man enough to tell the truth off the bat. You see a cold-hearted bitch who has just rejected you and has no feelings. Nobody wins. Make it easier for yourself bro. I like youre ideas man and I can see where youre coming from. But people can have a romantic event during coffee - I know its a friendly venue. But friendly venues can turn romantic. -Also I think that if the OP doesnt friendzone himself, he could get introduced to some of her friends, and get to know them romantically, if he does act like their friend. I can see where youre coming from in your post though. Good adice. Lol also never "Confess your love" for anyone that youre not already in a relationship with.
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