Sikke Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 Hey there, Okay So I messaged this girl the other day. I just said "Hey I know this might sound weird. But I think you are extremely cute :)" she wasn't online at the time. But she saw the message about an hour after. Well three days have passed, after it was seen. She finally sent me a message back. All it was is just a smiley face. No words what so ever. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? What are your thoughts?
Just-A-Normal-Guy Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 Hey there, Okay So I messaged this girl the other day. I just said "Hey I know this might sound weird. But I think you are extremely cute :)" she wasn't online at the time. But she saw the message about an hour after. Well three days have passed, after it was seen. She finally sent me a message back. All it was is just a smiley face. No words what so ever. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? What are your thoughts? Well she messaged back= Good Smiley face= Good, she's testing you to be creative or witty or whatever. For some reason girls online think guys have to be super attractive or pretty good looking but extremely creative to even be considered. If I were you I would reply with something like: So you are not going tell me how cute I am... I see how it is. Turning the table on her for not answering you with a sentence as well as showing a little bit of confidence. But again one guys opinion, what do I know haha Hope this helped. 1
soccerrprp Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 For now, relax and take it as a nice way to say "thanks." You didn't ask her out, so that would be next. The next response or lack there of will tell you how she really feels about you.
Author Sikke Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Hmmm? Is she cute? Hint....never tell a good looking woman she is beautiful or cute (unless she is your partner). We hear it a million times. What makes you stand out from the other guys? Be more imaginative....'you have a nice welcoming way about you'....'your eyes were even extra blue on Tuesday'. Use your imagination. Flatter her in a way to make her smile and link the praise to you specifically. You can't go wrong praising the way we dress...we spend a lot of time on it. Don't be afraid of sounding corny or not saying something your male friends would never say to a pretty girl. You are not trying to seduce a friend but a woman. Have the confidence to break from the mold and distinguish yourself in her eyes. YES! Yes she is very cute :3 I am the king of corny and cheesy by the way. I honestly didn't know what to say to her though. It's just hard to come up with a really good corny line. And it seems that most of the time it doesn't work. :/ I dunno what kind of a corny/cheesy line I could use now though. And should I wait a few days before I message her back? Like she did with me.
Author Sikke Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Wait..like she did? Don't play games. You are the male. Be confident. We like a confident (but not pushy)guy. How about something simple...'Your smiley made me feel good. Thank you. I hope this one will also make you smile (add a smiley). On second thought, I have a bad feeling about pursuing this lady. I'm just gonna stay away. I always go with my intuition. Even if I don't like what it tells me. Thank you for all the advice though guys and girls <3
d0nnivain Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 Do you otherwise know her IRL? If not, a smiley may be all you get because you are a stranger.
Author Sikke Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Do you otherwise know her IRL? If not, a smiley may be all you get because you are a stranger. I met her in IRL back in November. I'm pretty sure she was into me on some level. But I was going for another girl who was her friend at that time. I did find this girl very attractive when I met her. But I don't think I'm going to pursue her now. I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt bad again if I do.
d0nnivain Posted May 21, 2014 Posted May 21, 2014 If she knew you were into her friend & now you're chasing her, to her it feels like she is your 2nd choice.
Author Sikke Posted May 22, 2014 Author Posted May 22, 2014 If she knew you were into her friend & now you're chasing her, to her it feels like she is your 2nd choice. That was a long time ago though. Like back in November.
Lani Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 The smiley meant nothing kid. She thought she'd better reciprocate because it's rude not to. If she wanted to open up the conversation she would have. Move on just as you mentioned you were going to. 2
johnpatric Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 Well she replied you so of cause its a good thing.. I think you are going very fast.. If you like her then just try to talk with her as a normal person and then after some time you can give her compliments and doing little bit flirt with her.. but her I think you just start car and put it on second gear and try to drive so keep patient and go slow buddy.. just try to talk with her as a friend and then think about something more..
Author Sikke Posted May 22, 2014 Author Posted May 22, 2014 The smiley meant nothing kid. She thought she'd better reciprocate because it's rude not to. If she wanted to open up the conversation she would have. Move on just as you mentioned you were going to. Word! Not worth my time or money. 1
d0nnivain Posted May 22, 2014 Posted May 22, 2014 That was a long time ago though. Like back in November. 5 years ago was a long time. November is very recent.
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