Should i meet her?

[AliClay]

My ex of 6 years and I broke up in November after growing apart. Since then we been seeing each other sometimes and even have sex. She would text to ask if we can go museum, I would go with her etc. A month ago, I asked if we can go cinema she said 'no, thanks' and I should leave her to move on. Weeks later I wanted to see her again, she said she's seeing someone else and I should deal with it. I was very hurt and I started texting and begging her to come back to me but in vain. She seems like she has no memory of whom I am at all. She says she feels nothing about me anymore and I should not contact her. I asked her to meet up and she says no - after begging, she says she will let me know if we can meet in a couple of days. I want her back so badly. She thinks shes met a good man but I know she's just excited about the dates etc. Everyone would be. I need to know if I should go and see her and what to say cos I think she will be harsh and cruel to me on my face!

Thanks

[Simon Phoenix]

Leave her alone dude. Begging and pleading is not attractive. She's made herself clear -- now is the time to walk away with dignity, not grovel and beg and make an ass out of yourself. Let her do her thing with the new guy without interfering.

[AliClay]

Thanks guys - I made up my mind and not meet her. I will keep away and no contact at all. I might have to change my gym Its right by her road

Otherwise, I cant hurt forever - Someone else will come along, Im sure.

Thanks again!

[johnpatric]

I think you should have to leave her alone and why was you begging?? just move on buddy she doesn't care about your feelings, she gets over from you so I think its better for you to leave her alone and don't waste your time behind her.