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Very irritated! She won't leave me alone


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One year plus post BU, almost half a year NC. My progress has reached great lengths. I've made plenty of changes and things were looking up. With everyday that passed she became more and more irrelevant to my life. That is up until a few days ago.

 

She does this thing where she contacts me about every 4-5 months and they are always around certain times like last valentines day, around my birthday last year, around what would have been our anniversary, christmas, and now this year the night before my birthday.

 

She tried to add me back of FB a week ago, I denied her request. And this the first time I didn't reply to her breadcrumbs. She sent me this long paragraph of a text message the night before my birthday but I didn't read it. I just deleted it immediately but in the corner of my eye I saw "lets be friends".

 

For days I have been irritated and angry. She won't leave me the hell alone. It's pretty damn selfish of her if you ask me. It's even put a damper on my summer fling with my friend (something we both agreed we wanted to do this summer).

 

I have no idea why I am so irritated. All I know is everytime I think about it I want to pull my hair out

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Block her already. Seems pretty simple to me. Done.

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Block her already. Seems pretty simple to me. Done.

 

Can you do that? It's kind of embarrassing to be in my early 20's and not very tech savvy.

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Can you do that? It's kind of embarrassing to be in my early 20's and not very tech savvy.

 

Yes, go to their profile then press the ellipsis on the right-hand side of where the "cover photo" is then there should be another button that says "Report/Block".

 

There's a way I believe where you can type the name in and block but I've never done it so I don't know where, probably in privacy options. :)

 

Once you block her, she cannot see your profile, you cannot see her's, and there is no messaging anymore. Might as well block her on your phone too if you think it'll be an issue.

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Some people really are tough nuts. My ex best friends called for 6 months each and every day (!) even though I've never picked it up.

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