krista28 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 so recently me and my "boyfriend" had another fight. weve been seeing eachother for the past two months and its been up and down ever since. we talk on the phone and stuff but always seem to bicker. it seems theres other things in his life way more important than me...and he says were in a pattern. we have fought and he says hes not "jumping back into anything" last night on the phone i told him i felt led on and he said " i cant get through to you" and started even yelling. he said if u keep doing this we will never fix things. to me it just feels like im giving a lot in the relationship and hes playing agame. hes also 36 and immature for his age..i really didnt like how he raised his voice at me...seems angry a lot lately. i dont know what to do...or if its my fault i did flip out on him and call him selfish once and he said he doesnt love me anymore..although i love him....he said we just have to see how it goes..i said no girl dreams of a guy that doesnt know how he feels baout her...
clia Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Why are you still in a relationship with a guy you are constantly bickering with? This is too much drama for a relationship that is only two months old. You should move on and find a guy who you are more compatible with. You aren't compatible with this one.
TheGuard13 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Yeah, this sounds like a lot of drama for so early in a relationship. What are you bickering about?
snowflakes88 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Because you stay and tolerate it. Every thread you have about this guy is about how sad/miserable/lonely he makes you feel. Why do you stay? Just out of fear of being alone?
Assasda Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 OP is needy, and her being needy and insecure is driving the guy away. Even though he doesnt love you right now, you still love him, because you are needy for his attention. Youre needy for his time. I dont think he's the immature one OP, you are. Back off, give the man some space, and maybe things will get better
ExpatInItaly Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 I literally can't keep with you posts anymore, OP. I can't seem to keep track of which guy(s) you're talking about. Sometimes being single for a while is a very healthy thing
Phantom888 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 You need to be single for a year, re-evaluate yourself, improve yourself, and then date again. You are not picking the right guys for you, and they are not always at fault. Just chill and try to self-reflect.
Zahara Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 I've said this before in your other threads. You need to stay away from men and try to get some mental and emotional clarity by being alone for awhile. I can't keep up with which man you're with or talking about. You jump from one to another -- needing a man to fulfil you. And each time you post about a guy, you're miserable. Do one thing for yourself. Start a relationship with you, just you and no one else.
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