joel Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 ok i'm a guy what is the real defintion of a playa? i mean being a guy , i like talking to differ gals and maybe if they let me their freinds. i mean i am a freindly and nice person to gals and even guys. i also like to flirt a liuttle. i had this gal that i now she likes me and when i talk to other gals she made a dirty face at me. ok what so wrong with talkin to other gals just being nice. right. do u guys think i am a playa.i mean if i just stick to one gal and find out shje ain't interested me as i am in her then i gave all my energy on just one gal and lost out on so much time gaining another gal. that why guys should always talk and chit chat and even try to be freinds with other gals a lot if u can
Barby Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 1) a guy who calls women "gals" is NOT a "playa" My opinion is someone who is having relationships/sex with multiple women!
nattfodd Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 From what I understand, aside from being a very silly sounding slang term, 'playa' is the same thing as a womanizer.
Merin Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 Originally posted by Barby 1) a guy who calls women "gals" is NOT a "playa" /QUOTE] I swear Barby BEFORE I even read your post, I was going to say the same thing! A Player is.. 1) An Guy/Girl who has multiple "Only's" as in "I swear baby you're the only one." *cough bullsh*t cough* 2) A Guy/Girl who uses people for thier own personal gain.. could be sexual, financial, whatever.. and not just ONE person.. but MANY 3) A Guy/Girl who tells every person they meet that they want to get it on with "I've never felt this way" BUT funny.. because he/she was just telling the other guy/girl they met yesterday the same thing.. IF you're NOT in a relationship and it's KNOWN to the person you may be casually dating that you're seeing other people, then good to go..not a player. HOWEVER IF you're telling every girl you have an interest in "You're the only one" and "I'm not sleeping with anyone else" BUT you really are.. then yeah, you're not only a player.. You're an assclown/assclownette
Fuzzy Chickens Posted February 10, 2005 Posted February 10, 2005 I define a "playa" as someone who "plays" women - translation: tells them they're the only one when that's a load of bull.
Author joel Posted February 10, 2005 Author Posted February 10, 2005 i think i'm more of the friendly social persob than the playa. i don;t have as much skill in playin women. most women are too smart to fall for a guy. they can tell been a fake a a true blue. well they ask freinds ,talk to your freinds, make observation,......and they can tell right. you can also i am a flirt, i like to smile, talk to gals , compliment, maybe even teasing. an example i would be like asking a gal if she has a bf and she says no i would say- ah really why not a good looking gal like u single ah no way. or ah hello JEn in a smiling and a warmer tone than usual.
yogimon Posted February 23, 2005 Posted February 23, 2005 a true "playa" can call a girl a "gal" or whatever the hell he wants. its his attitude which gets him laid, not is vocab.
Merin Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Originally posted by yogimon a true "playa" can call a girl a "gal" or whatever the hell he wants. its his attitude which gets him laid, not is vocab.
alphamale Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Originally posted by yogimon a true "playa" can call a girl a "gal" or whatever the hell he wants. its his attitude which gets him laid, not is vocab. if a dude is good lookin with a nice smile and funny w/ good personality he can call women whatever the hell he wants to and they love it. as long as he does it the right way, with the shyt-eating grin.
morrigan Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Some players (of both genders) aren't even good looking, they just know how to use charm to make the other person feel attractive and interesting. It's a superficial personality gloss over their own self interest.
alphamale Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 Originally posted by morrigan Some players (of both genders) aren't even good looking, they just know how to use charm to make the other person feel attractive and interesting. It's a superficial personality gloss over their own self interest. very true MORRIGAN but imagine combining that charm with good looks and the player will be almost invincible!
EC Posted February 24, 2005 Posted February 24, 2005 I love having guy friends that are so called "playas". I get to know little things. I also learn a lot from my brother so that no guy can run anything by me. But I agree that they don't even have to be goodlooking. Its all about the word play. And I thought guy players were bad until I met a girl "playa". Man I was shocked.
mental_traveller Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 Has anyone here played a player? Oh and I agree with the last post - girl "playas" are even worse than the male variety!
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