lionheart153 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 (edited) Hello, just having trouble trying to read this girl, wondering if I can get a second opinion. Long story short, met this girl through a friend, got her number. Asked her out for coffee, had a great 3 hours. Asked her out again for dinner, had fun i thought. connected with this girl on a intellectual level which went great I thought but then everything just started to go get confusing. She never texted me first and she works 3 jobs so she is really busy and I understand that. I was patient. I asked her out again but she just couldn't fit me into her schedule and this time she didn't try to reschedule. I tried to msg her but she was slow in response. and from our conversation she seemed like she was interested. I was telling her that I thought her work ethic was very admire able and attractive she seems taken aback but told me she really took my compliment highly. So I'm out one night with a few friends and at this point I feel like she's kind of a lost cause. But they dare me to use a cheese pick up line on her. So I do, she responds right away and is flattered and she thinks im cute for saying that. Once again I tried to carry the conversation and ask her if she was time for lunch the next day, she doesn't have time and we flirt a bit and long story short she basicly says she not easy to come by. She was talking about a movie she wanted to see so I told her that I would love to take her to see it, and only says "maybe . I tell her shes being a tease and she says "haha you mean I'm not that easy to come by? Yes. have a good night" What does that mean? Anyway I figure that shes kinda a lost cause again cuz I msg her next day and she never replies. I go out to the club with my friends doing my own thing and guess who I run into. I'm still feeling a bit annoyed so I tried to avoid her but I got a bit drunk, I talked to her for a bit and when she was heading out she said bye and went to hug me and I asked when would I be able to see her again, and she told me she wasn't sure but she would text me. I called her out and told her she never texts me and then I said bye and went back to hving fun. So nothing until late late last night and she msgs me first, in like the first time ever. I respond a while later when I got teh chance and once again she stops the conversation after only 1 reply. So ya I can't figure this girl out. On top of that I asked her friend what her deal was, my friend told me that she might not be looking for anything, and she heard from the sister that she may still be talking to her ex from 2 years ago, and crap, and that if she is isn't interested she won't change her mind, and that she is picky. this was all before she msged me last night. I know I am probably thinking about this way to much, but maybe I should just call it quits and move on. As much as it sucks cuz she was cute and smart maybe this has become just to complicated. Edited May 20, 2014 by lionheart153
abby_tx Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Call it quits and move on. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you flat out.
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