Onmymind Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 Hey everyone, It's been almost 7 months postbreakup, and I am easily falling for other girls. I've somewhat met someone new, who I enjoy spending time with and even somewhat hooking up with, but I don't know if she's ever willing to go past that point. I see so much in her that I see in myself, and she is very close to what I want in a woman both in looks and personality and aspirations for the future. So far it seems like she just wants to go with the flow and does not want me to pushed too far and too fast. I have no need to rush her into a relationship either, however it would be nice to know that she appreciates me like I appreciate her. Should I just continue to explore the sexual chemistry and see where it goes? Or should I not do anything because this is most likely a dead-end? I know this is a very hard and vague question to answer but since I am happily back into the dating game, and I am extremely happy that I'm able to develop new feelings for new girls, I still would like to start off right.
Potz4prez Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 It's you first time seeing someone new... Look past your infatuation, and look at things objectively. Do you feel she's reciprocating equally?
newmoon Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 how long have you been seeing this girl? if she knows about your recent break-up she might see herself as a rebound girl/date and not want to get too involved with you. why not just take things slow and go-with-the-flow, and let her set the pace for what she wants. not *everything* has to end up in a relationship. you can just have fun going out with someone you really like and maybe want to see more of. why rush?
Jay77098 Posted May 20, 2014 Posted May 20, 2014 OP, take it easy. Take it slow. Women move at a different pace than we men do. If you enjoy her company, then....enjoy her company. Don't look forward to (or expect) sex. If/when she is ready for sex, she will make it clear. Until then, just relax and enjoy your time with her.
Author Onmymind Posted May 21, 2014 Author Posted May 21, 2014 Thanks guys, I guess I have to chill out and stop wasting resources on overthinking!
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