Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 A great guy wants to date me. I've been getting a lot of lately. I've widdled down to a cool 60 kg ( pounds .... not sure what that is) but for me it's small. I'm not really use to dating so even though the offers are coming it's still for me a new experience. Apparently, with this one particular guy, I'm highly critical. To me he's rushing into a relationship and I wanna take my time to get to know him. I find him a bit insecure, he says he has a fear of ringing people so he doesn't like to ring me. Is this odd to anyone? He's a glass half empty kinda guy and likes to disagree a lo and complain. No offence to americans but he doesn't wanna go to the states but I do one day. When asked why ... he said he doesn't like americans. I said have you met one before he said no. He hasn't left our country. He's really nice to me. Says he hasn't got a job but working on it. It's been half a year. I'm not attracted to him and mainly it's his attitude. But apparently to my friends my attitude sux and he's really nice. A lot of bad stuff comes up in counselling sessions for me and something called the zuk paradox anyone heard of it? Where past issues comes up and you deal with them.constantly ... This is great as it leads me to see what went on.... I'm not sure whose got the worst attitude me or him. He may get a job or not. He may want to go travelling or not. But am I right or are my friends right? I feel like i have every right to feel like his attitude is a big red flag.
HappyLove Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Your friends are crazy. You and this guy have nothing in common. You are simply not compatible.
Assasda Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Well, its good that he's opinionated and not a yes man. Its bad that he complains and judges without merit. He probably just doesnt like to use the phone. What are his other insecurities? I think that you do like this guy, but he just has to be more open and accepting, you should let him know that. If everything goes a little smoother, something could happen between you 2
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