Simplysimon Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 I want to make this as short as I can but it would be nice for an independent view on things. We are both middle aged. I met a divorced woman, got on well started dating. 10 months on she gets times when she is really low. When I asked her what the issue was she would never talk to me. I tried to work things out myself what the issue is and thought it was because of her marriage break up, she still loved her ex husband. Anyway we would fall out then we would make up, many times over a 3 year period. I have always been pretty alpha with women but I really loved this girl so I became pretty beta. She finds out her fathers terminally ill. She goes down hill, won't talk to me yet I'm always there for her and always was. When times were good we were a great couple. There's a lot more to it but it's too long. Sometimes I would call her to say hi,,she would ignore me, or say I don't want to see you ever again and I don't want you give a reason. Tough times but I persevered as time heals all. One morning I am lay in her bed alone and her phone goes off at the bed side . I know I shouldn't but I looked. Her and the ex had been communicating with a lot of sentiment. It was the last straw. I left, moved out, I was at my breaking point and gone over. I never went back, few text, nasty, some nice. Did the Nc part. We got back in touch, then stopped. All messy stuff. So 3 months on I meet a new girl whose really nice and good to me. My ex calls me occasionally or I call her. I find out her and her ex husband are back on which tells me I made the right decision. She now tells me she loved me a lot and doesn't want her ex husband but he's had a break down needing counselling. She's told him and her family that she still loves me. What a real mess..sorry to be so confusing but the whole relationship was hard work. Thing is I have feelings still for her
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