love1234 Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 hey ppl i need some help my gf broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and we have had no contact at all i have not called and she has not called me . i love this girl with all my heart and we have been together for 1year and 6 months....so my question is should i send her a test masg sayin "happey Valentines day" and that all she is havein a hard time in life thanks for the help yea no contact for 3 weeks it hurts alot..
DinNJ Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 Didn't you already ask this question??? answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! she broke up with you. She doesn't deserve anything... End of discussion.
mozartina Posted February 9, 2005 Posted February 9, 2005 I'd say, don't call or emial her a v'day note. i do agree that she doesn't deserve your well wishes, but i sort of feel like it depends on why you broke up in the first place.....and why you'd be wishing her well....is it so that she can have you in her mind and maybe pick up the phone and make everything okay? or is it because you really just want to wish her well, regardless of whether or not it prompts her to contact you in return? my guess is that you want a response. who wouldn't? i'm giong through something similar in that my boyfriend and I broke up last week adn for a week and a half i'm DYING over the no contact feeling. it takes every ounce of energy for me not to call him AND i too have contemplated contacting him on Monday, but ya know what? i'm not going to. i love him but he can suffer without hearing from me just as much as i'm suffering...and your girlfriend will feel worse if you do't contact her. let her feel a little pain for breaking up with you....i woiuld ask yourself this question: if you contact her for v'day and she does not respond in any way, will you feel worse? if so, then the answer is that under no circumstances do you contact her. if you think you'll feel better just sending your good wishes, no matter what the consequence is, then go for it, but my guess is that you wont. try to do your best right now to protect yourself from being hurt more than you already are.
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