doritos248 Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 A little bit about me im a 24yr old male. was with my ex for 3 yrs knew her for 4yrs. Long story short she came up with the typical im not happy were not compatible excuse. Left me for another guy 2 weeks after breakup, but they've been talking for 3 months ( 3 months ago the problems started...coincidence right). At first i begged i pleaded and wondered why our three years and family ( we have a son turning 3 in nov) got overthrown for a guys shes known for 3months. N i asked her why and she says it just feels right with him and shes so happy, hes older like 30's ect so probably more mature than me but anyways. For all who have been threw this keep your head up, its hard as hell trust me i know! this guys around my kid now and in my house i was just in three weeks ago. But look at the big picture, and dun blame yourself. My ex ran to this guy when we fought, she wasn't strong enough to talk it out with me because she cant take criticism/honesty of herself so she chose the other guy cause its easier and of course hell agree to everything she says, so that's where the easy comes from I guess. We're the strong ones so start seeing yourself as that, dont think or ever have doubt or blame yourself for why they left you. My ex says shes happy now cause shes with someone new "the honeymoon stage as we call it" and that never last, eventually all her old issues will come up again, along with issues hell bring to the table too and it'll be a repeat cycle. As for me ive been working towards getting my degree, working on myself , and gym. Its hard going cold turkey but like i said were the strong ones! Were the last of a dying breed ladies and gents and if you gave it your 100% to make it work that's all you can give. But realized while your working on a better you, getting goals accomplished or losing that 10lbs you always wanted or whatever it may be........your progressing, their in the same boat with the illusion that this time itll be different. Whats built on s**t will always be s**t. When have you heard of a great relationship based on infidelity. SO in conclusion let ur ex have him or her cause they don't deserve you, someone who did right by them, always cared, n tried their best, let them keep running away from issues, and most of all just let them go. Relationships aren't easy at all I don't know who started that lie lol, maybe movies or something. But one day you'll find sum one who will adore you, miss you, kiss you and communicate and you will b the only one they see, so keep ur head up! And i say karma because I left my ex gf back in 2010 for this one and looked what happened to me , learn from life and be a better person , Love you all!
Natsume21 Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 I was expecting a story of how a cheater crashed and burn. I was sorely disappointed. 1
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