Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Hey all! Another question, hope you don't mind, lol. I am just curious as to why he is more shy with me now. He would just deeply stare at me all the time, and even when I would look at him, he would still keep on staring. He didn't avert his eyes at all. He is very loud and outgoing. Jokes around a lot, and he seemed to be that way, and he would hug me more, and act way more flirty with me. Now when he stares at me he looks away when I catch him. He's more quiet around me, and not as flirty with me. He is acting more shy around me. He would also stare at my body and even when I caught him looking/staring at my body he still would keep on staring, but now just the other day he was looking at me and I caught him looking at my body and he looked away really fast and looked down. He keeps doing that. I just don't understand it, cause why is he shy all of a sudden? And looking away when I catch him looking? when before he didn't do that. Does that mean he doesn't like me anymore? Lol, any opinions welcomed! I just don't get that at all, haha. Thanks guys and gals!
smackie9 Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 When you really really like someone you become more shy. 1
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 When you really really like someone you become more shy. Do you really think that's it though???
Assasda Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 He lost some of his confidence. It may not be you. He maybe going through some personal stuff But his confidence has taken a shot, and he's not as sure of him self as he once was. Something definitely happened to him, for him to lose his confidence. Sad 1
Mrin Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Do you really think that's it though??? Yes. He became self conscious about it when he shifted from lust to something else. He's trying to be "good" 1
you_can_not_see_me Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Hey all! Another question, hope you don't mind, lol. I am just curious as to why he is more shy with me now. He would just deeply stare at me all the time, and even when I would look at him, he would still keep on staring. He didn't avert his eyes at all. He is very loud and outgoing. Jokes around a lot, and he seemed to be that way, and he would hug me more, and act way more flirty with me. Now when he stares at me he looks away when I catch him. He's more quiet around me, and not as flirty with me. He is acting more shy around me. He would also stare at my body and even when I caught him looking/staring at my body he still would keep on staring, but now just the other day he was looking at me and I caught him looking at my body and he looked away really fast and looked down. He keeps doing that. I just don't understand it, cause why is he shy all of a sudden? And looking away when I catch him looking? when before he didn't do that. Does that mean he doesn't like me anymore? Lol, any opinions welcomed! I just don't get that at all, haha. Thanks guys and gals! why don't you give some background about you and this guy. 1
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 He lost some of his confidence. It may not be you. He maybe going through some personal stuff But his confidence has taken a shot, and he's not as sure of him self as he once was. Something definitely happened to him, for him to lose his confidence. Sad Yea! That's what i'm thinking. Cause he is very bold and flirty type and he just seems to be more quiet and calm with me, and seems to be more nervous or something around me? I am wondering if a girl really insulted him, but he won't tell me even if I ask him cause I know how he is. I do see your point though, and it very well could be it. Thanks. 1
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 why don't you give some background about you and this guy. Ummm....well...I wouldn't even say we are friends, lol. We knew each other though for 2 years. But it wasn't consistent, like we weren't super close or anything like that, he is friends with my friends and i just kinda knew him cause of my friends, so when i would see him it would be at parties and stuff like that. He was very open about his life to me though. He would tell me a lot of what's going on in his life, and I helped him out with an issue with a friend of ours, cause they were feuding over some BS, lolz. I have heard from friends that he liked me and he even told me himself, but he is such a flirt/player that I didn't pay any attention to it. You know, he would do his sly moves and sly words on me, but I just thought "Uh yeah right" He would say a lot of things like "You're my best friend" "I love you so much" "You are so kind" and so on. Which are really cool compliments to hear, but it's hard to believe it coming from him cause he is a flirt. If I like someone a lot I say "Loyalty" as a joke, my friends know this and I said this to him I said "Loyalty" hahaha. He was like "I will always be loyal to you" I am thinking yeah right sunshine! Haha. I don't know we really don't have much of a background. I mean we stuck up for each other one time. Like this guy was acting like a real ******* and he stood up for me, and this other time he really helped me out and made sure I was ok. Ummm...lol! Sorry I don't know what else to say, but if you have any more questions just ask! Thanks!
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 I forgot to put in the post that when he was looking at my body up and down I got a little uncomfortable lol, so I laughed and I said with a smile "Stop" in a nice way though and I touched his shoulder and he turned his head the other way and got all awkward, lmao. Like that is so not him, he is so flirty and bold that he doesn't get awkward like that, and he would look at me up and down all the time before and I noticed it before and he would still just keep looking and not give a damn basically that I caught him looking cause he was just that type. That's what is so weird is that he is not an awkward person, and he all of a sudden became awkward with me, like he didn't care to stare at me when I knew it, I even said one time "quit starin boy" as a joke and then he said "Nope" and he still kept staring and looking at me up and down like a full on body scan, and he didn't care even when I called him out on it, so it's just odd that he acts the opposite now. Haha.
Assasda Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 I forgot to put in the post that when he was looking at my body up and down I got a little uncomfortable lol, so I laughed and I said with a smile "Stop" in a nice way though and I touched his shoulder and he turned his head the other way and got all awkward, lmao. Like that is so not him, he is so flirty and bold that he doesn't get awkward like that, and he would look at me up and down all the time before and I noticed it before and he would still just keep looking and not give a damn basically that I caught him looking cause he was just that type. That's what is so weird is that he is not an awkward person, and he all of a sudden became awkward with me, like he didn't care to stare at me when I knew it, I even said one time "quit starin boy" as a joke and then he said "Nope" and he still kept staring and looking at me up and down like a full on body scan, and he didn't care even when I called him out on it, so it's just odd that he acts the opposite now. Haha. Did he have a recent breakup or something like that? Did he lose his job? or fail a class, if he goes to school?
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 Did he have a recent breakup or something like that? Did he lose his job? or fail a class, if he goes to school? Not that I know of...his life seems to be going good actually! His life was way worse like 2 months ago....he was going through a lot 2 months ago with just ridiculous drama. He still though was his goofy self even when he was going through some rough patches. He is still goofy and bold but it's just not like how normally is. I don't know, I can't explain it, like he seems to be more quick and he's just a little different. I don't know what's going on, but everything seems to be going good.
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 My thread went stale....I see! Hahahaha! Anymore opinions people? would love to hear more...
you_can_not_see_me Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 I think OP is way too caught up in her own mind. Wouldn't be surprised if you were tripping a lot this.
Author Lovebite Posted May 19, 2014 Author Posted May 19, 2014 I think OP is way too caught up in her own mind. Wouldn't be surprised if you were tripping a lot this. What? What is that suppose to mean? Hahahaha! I just want hear more people!!
ChooseTruth Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 It sounds like you told him to stop twice and so he eventually did. If you want him to look again, maybe you need to make it ok by flirting back.
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