David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Thanku barky2 She's not coming back. Stop hoping. Print the advice Barky gave you and read it 100 times. 1
Author l.k Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 She's not coming back. Stop hoping. Print the advice Barky gave you and read it 100 times. David87 How can u be so sure.... Dude i was expecting some posetive thoughts and not some rude replies...
Author l.k Posted June 5, 2014 Author Posted June 5, 2014 Barky2 Bro all the answers and advices u r giving me are related to me and my gf distance.... I know distance is the problem... But it is not the reason for the breakup.... As i told u.. She got admission in new university nd is enjoying her single life thr.... She even said that she is not breaking up coz of the distance.... She said she just wants to be single now an she doesnt feeel anything for any guy.... I know barky wt u r here trying to say and explain me is that thrs too much land between me an her... But beleive me all these years distance dint seem to create any problem though thr were some misunderstandings but none of them were serious.... And she is going to come back to india soon... She is just waiting for her usa greencard... And thanks to ur thread... I strictly applied nc afte reading ur story... Nd i have almost moved on... But somewhere i still miss her.... The type of human she was.... Thats the reason i still want her back in my life... I hope u gt my point now And thats true that " if something is meant to be.. It will be" And " its then when u stop hoping... Magical things happen"
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 David87 How can u be so sure.... Dude i was expecting some posetive thoughts and not some rude replies... Let her go and she may come back. If you keep hoping everyday that she will you are only disappointing your self. I'm not trying to be rude with you ....I just want to open your eyes. People get back together but not with the attitude you're having.
Natsume21 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Barky2 Bro all the answers and advices u r giving me are related to me and my gf distance.... I know distance is the problem... But it is not the reason for the breakup.... As i told u.. She got admission in new university nd is enjoying her single life thr.... She even said that she is not breaking up coz of the distance.... She said she just wants to be single now an she doesnt feeel anything for any guy.... I know barky wt u r here trying to say and explain me is that thrs too much land between me an her... But beleive me all these years distance dint seem to create any problem though thr were some misunderstandings but none of them were serious.... And she is going to come back to india soon... She is just waiting for her usa greencard... And thanks to ur thread... I strictly applied nc afte reading ur story... Nd i have almost moved on... But somewhere i still miss her.... The type of human she was.... Thats the reason i still want her back in my life... I hope u gt my point now And thats true that " if something is meant to be.. It will be" And " its then when u stop hoping... Magical things happen" The distance, though a BIG problem, I wouldn't say was the main culprit. Giving that she was cold, distant, started picking fights, you can bet your ass someone else was on the horizon. She wanted to date someone else. There, do you want her now? If you do, go to the States and get her back, though chances of you doing that and being successful are almost nil. It wouldn't have mattered if you were still in India, eventually, this was going to happen. The distance just provided the perfect excuse. Sorry man, hate to break it to you, but it's over. Don't get your hopes up and do what people back in the day did when there was no internet... Break up and never speak to each other again. --Natsume21
David87 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 The distance, though a BIG problem, I wouldn't say was the main culprit. Giving that she was cold, distant, started picking fights, you can bet your ass someone else was on the horizon. She wanted to date someone else. There, do you want her now? If you do, go to the States and get her back, though chances of you doing that and being successful are almost nil. It wouldn't have mattered if you were still in India, eventually, this was going to happen. The distance just provided the perfect excuse. Sorry man, hate to break it to you, but it's over. Don't get your hopes up and do what people back in the day did when there was no internet... Break up and never speak to each other again. --Natsume21 Apparently OP likes things sugar coated and gets upset when you tell him the truth. The distance isn't the bigest factor here because the girl dumped him before leaving India, but he keeps lying to himself that she'll come back one day.....
barky2 Posted June 5, 2014 Posted June 5, 2014 Everything that David87 and I have said was blunt cold hard truth. I won't sugar coat things for you man, because it's stuff were trying to drill into your head. We're not being mean nor rude, just telling you stuff you need to hear. Let me ask you two scenarios. If you were in Cali with her do you think y'all would still be together? If she was in India with you, would y'all still be together? I'm sure you'll answer yes to one if not both. And that's what I'm trying to say there willl be a chance to get back together if y'all are near eachother. So until that time if it ever happens deal with it then, if not pretty soon you'll be healed and on your way to finding happiness again. Barky
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