HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Was hoping maybe someone could give me some advice... i had a date with a guy that I met OLD and we have been speaking for a few weeks we have everything in common including some very strange coincidences I think we were both thinking this is all a bit weird lol obviously with speaking for so long we have built up a bit of a 'relationship' already we have finally met up and he I feel so comfortable around him which is rare for me with new people and he is EVERYTHING I need and Ive picked the wrong ones time and time again, he would treat me like a princess and I would have a life partner (Im not getting any younger lol) but the "wow" chemisty was not there and he is quite overweight than in his his pics... I dont mind this so much but its def not my usual type. I dont know what to do, should I pursue it and see what happens.. I dont want to throw it away but the physical attraction isnt really there.. could I grow to fancy him? x
Potz4prez Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 There was a thread like this recently... where it had gone on longer. I think the consensus was to move on. A relationship with someone you're not physically attracted with is called "friendship."
central Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 You may grow to feel more attraction, but it's a very "iffy" proposition. Other than just end it, the only other thing you might consider is being completely honest and direct, and tell him that as much as you find him compatible, his weight and physical condition are a deal breaker. If he wants to change that, your friendship could grow into something more eventually (no guarantee), but it has to be his choice and he has to find his own motivation.
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted May 18, 2014 Author Posted May 18, 2014 Thanks guys. I wouldnt want anyone to change for me. He's even got the strength of character for me he wouldnt hesitate to tell me I stepped out of line and I need that in a man! he is so perfect its just the physical x
rns4lyfe Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Continue getting to know him and see where that leads. He could always lose more weight. Hit the gym then ask if he wants to come. Bike ride, jogging, different activities where he exercises and has fun with you.
Assasda Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Wow, all the girls that I know look past physical a lot. He must be in horrible shape. Since youre thinking about it so much. Dump him, move on
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