Angela102 Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 My Ex and I have been broken up for almost 3years - he is going through a mid life crisis (IMO) and I have had real trouble focusing on moving on emotionally. I have been on a midlife crisis forum which has been amazing in helping me process this pain and understand there was nothing I could do. I have trawled the internet and read everything I can to understand in the hope of a. reconciliation b. helping him with the depression integral to MLC. But of course I am the last person who can help him. Literally the best thing I can do is move away and move on. So now I find myself here as I need to focus on my process for dealing with this loss and moving on, rather than on something connected to him. I am trying to connect with my emotions but am struggling
me0wth Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 You really haven't crushed on anyone in the past 3 years? Stop thinking about someone that does not want to be a part of your personal life. Abandon the idea of friendship. You owe nothing. Move on with your life, meet a different man, and take care of your own goddamned self.
Summerrose2013 Posted May 19, 2014 Posted May 19, 2014 Hi Angela, it seems to have taken you a long time to reach this decision but I'm sure it's the right one. There are some other threads in this forum about moving on...take a wander over there...you should also read the No Contact thread if you haven't already.
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