Hugo112211 Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Ok so what I am about to say happened before my latest post (I am in the friendzone aren't I). There is this girl who is showing strong signs of interest around me. She treats me differently than a couple of other of her guy friends. She is extremely flirty with me both physically and verbally. She used to just give me nudge now and then when we pass each other by the hallways (in high school). Now she doesn't do that anymore and she ignores me whenever her friends are around. Also, I catch her staring at me more recently. One time, she was just sitting forward not talking to anyone and when I come sit near her just doing my own thing, she turned my direction and I could FEEL her staring at me. Her whole body was almost facing me and I pretended like I didn't notice her. She just kept still facing me and not talking. It was pretty creepy. And when I faced up from my desk, she wasn't looking at me but her body was almost in my direction.However, she will always be her flirty self whenever we are in the class where she sits behind me. She not only flirts but is interested in my life as well. One time, I was feeling down and she immediately noticed it and tried to cheer me up and make me laugh and asking what's wrong. I am very confused
Dallers Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 Hugo there was no need to make another post just post onto the last one. In any case the way you are over-thinking this situation is most likely the same thing that she is feeling by your body language. Listen to what you wrote: She started ignoring you, so to get her attention back you went and sat next to her and pretended to be doing something to get her attention and then proceeded to ignore her. To me that is pretty creepy and no girl is going to appreciate that. She has a life, you have a life make your intentions clear to her and depending on her answer rejoice or move on. Games help no one and if you hang around the next guy will ask her out and you will miss out.
Author Hugo112211 Posted May 25, 2014 Author Posted May 25, 2014 Hugo there was no need to make another post just post onto the last one. In any case the way you are over-thinking this situation is most likely the same thing that she is feeling by your body language. Listen to what you wrote: She started ignoring you, so to get her attention back you went and sat next to her and pretended to be doing something to get her attention and then proceeded to ignore her. To me that is pretty creepy and no girl is going to appreciate that. She has a life, you have a life make your intentions clear to her and depending on her answer rejoice or move on. Games help no one and if you hang around the next guy will ask her out and you will miss out. She has been showing interest in me for quite some time now. Firstly, she was very, VERY flirty with me unlike other guys. Now, it is more discreet like She won't even talk to me when she's with her friends and I pass them by down the hall but she will still initiate conversations, flirt heavily, touch me a lot, teasing, etc when she is alone with me. I also catch her staring at me a lot discreetly. She doesn't do this to other guys because when she talks to other guys, it's mostly about "Can I copy your homework" or "Can you get my book from your locker". She doesn't use me for SQUAT.
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