madelinex Posted May 18, 2014 Posted May 18, 2014 My ex and I broke up last month and we have been in no contact for three weeks. He broke up with me saying we are not compatible. I took it pretty bad because it came out of nowhere for me. I did all the things i wasnt supposed to lol as in texting him and calling him, asking him to meet up. He basically said I dont want to see you right now. Yes, we had couple of fights but I think it was more of how he kept lying to me. He lied about texting his ex saying he misses her. I found out he talked to a girl from a dating site as well. Because of that we had trust issues and i became insecure. He said, "i need to be a own woman." anyhows long story short, we had no contact but i needed something from him so i broke it after 3 weeks. He then said how about we meet up on tuesday and grab a drink so i said ok. Then he texts me today saying he has work on tuesday because some new girl quit so he has to cover her shift. Hes said we're not obligated to each other so can we meet next week. Hes prioritizing his life and work comes first so he has to change the plans to next week. I said ok and then I told him hey if you're seeing someone or talking to anyone new, we dont have to meet up. no point in causing unnecessary drama. He said LOL im not seeing anyone or talking to anyone and im not going to. So we decided to meet next week. I wrote dont flake again and he hasnt responded for 2 hours. Is this a good idea? I am somewhat over him but not fully. I wrote down all his flaws and tell myself I hate this and that about this guy to make myself feel better haha
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